'Did he just use me?
''I did spend the night at his place the second date and we had sex.'
I see a lot of women asking this question when things do not go their way. No matter what society and media want you to think, sex is never casual period. Therefore every single time you are intimate with a man without being exclusive (at the very least), or married, subconsciously he is being sent a message and this will never change... and that message rarely encourages him to commit, become exclusive, or to cherish you more. Ask yourself why casual sex is promoted so much and you will understand. Until you understand your responsibilities as the gatekeeper of sex... you will continue making the same mistakes.
Think of it from this perspective. If you met a guy that said he was dating to find marriage and on the second date he said you were the one, proposed to you, gave you a ring, and introduced you as his wife... would you trust him?
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Maybe he didn't like your personality. For example, in my case, I was dating someone for 2 months. In that relationship it was always me who had to initiate a conversation and I felt that it is was one-sided. So slowly I started to fade away and then after a week she messages me that she is sad as I don't talk much to her. I love women who take charge and are intelligent and many don't fall into that category. It has nothing to do with looks or sex.
Either he thought you were easy, or he just realized there was something about you he didn't really like. Maybe both.
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Because he got what he wanted u are still thinking about the relationship whilst he I living his best life
I'm guessing guys that do that are afraid of commitment.
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