I need advice on my broken heart, because I don't know what to think?

[Insecure2]

This year I was supposed to have the greatest holidays ever as I was to spend IT with the guy I like. However, IT all got mixed up pretty badly. I caught the flu and was quite weak. Despite this, the guy convinced me to come over to his place. There he started to delicately convince me to have sex, but as I lack experience and wasn't feeling too good, I didn't want to jump head first into IT, so I stuck to my conviction that petting would be enough for now. He was dissatisfied. He started 'explaining' to me that my attitude to the physical aspects happening between two people is insufficient, that I probably won't find another Man at my Age WHO will be so patient and willing to 'help', because he only agreed to everything as I was a nice woman and he thought I deserve IT and I would be thrilled to get sex with him. I wanted to know what he actually thought about me and somehow he started being evasive talking about his need to get back up on his own two feet, that he liked me maybe, but he doesn't want a relationship right now and IT probably wouldn't go well because I'm so similar in my inability to change to his father WHO he hates that he doesn't see a future with me. How he could have any girl for a girlfriend and not necessarily me. I feel really disappointed, used and undervalued right now and I don't know how to cope with IT all. Can anyone help me?

[slickrick6600]

Guy Sounds like an asshole who doesn’t truly care about you. Someone who truly cares about you wouldn’t mention the word sex and would be asking what they can do to take care of their sick lady. You need someone who brings you blankets and soup not headaches and confusion. Wait for someone who loves you that’s not love. If I love someone then she is the only girl in the world and I’m going to make sure she knows that

[Summeroflove]

People who just want sex aren’t worth your time. If you feel violated make a law enforcement report.

[katiesmuff]

Brush it off as a good learned lesson of life and certainly dump this bum. Many many great guys in the world that would understand and comfort you in a time of sickness instead of spending his time trying to get into your pants.

[Ironco]

Fuck that guy, it's better to find out now that he is a douchebag and not later.

You are still young, there will be others to choose from.

Don't fall for his bullshit coming up in the next few weeks. Tell that prick to go fuck himself.

[Jennz6]

💔 oh so sorry