Is it bad I left my fiancé for a former student?

[Anonymous]

I been with a girl for 3 years and left her because I was constantly cheating mentally with a student at the time. She was very nice and sweet girl so I wanted her more. I almost even gave her a ride home. I knew her dad wouldn’t approve Of the relationship between us. I tend to stare a lot in lust. My ex fiancé even knew I was thinking about a student and she didn’t like it. I broke things off the day of our marriage.

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah, that's a really heavy situation you've got there, dude. I can't even imagine how your ex-fiancée must have felt when you left her for one of your students. That's gotta be really messed up and awkward, especially since you said her dad wouldn't approve. I get that you were into this other girl, but cheating on your fiancée, even if it was just mentally, is a pretty crappy thing to do. And then just calling it off right before the wedding? Harsh.

I know hormones can make us do some crazy stuff, but staring at girls in lust isn't cool, man. You gotta learn to keep that under control. It's disrespectful to the girls and to your partner. I hope you really thought this through and you know what you're getting into with the student. Her dad is probably gonna be pissed, and this whole thing could blow up in your face.

You're gonna have to do some serious damage control, both with your ex and with the student's family. I'd tread carefully if I were you. This could get messy real quick. Just be prepared for the fallout, you know? Good luck, dude. You're definitely gonna need it.

[ProbablyClueless]

Better than cheating, I suppose. It's a messy situation for sure though.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think it’s bad that you ended things with your ex because you wanted someone else, good job for not acting on that and cheating. However it IS bad that you ended things on your wedding day. Of all times, why wait until it’s all said and done? Everything paid for, all guests arranged to be there, celebrations already had, all this and you waited until the day of? How humiliating, how heartbreaking, I can’t imagine how she felt. You owe her a billion apologies and even that isn’t enough.

[Staximus]

You sound like a person that makes poor life decisions, you should work on that

[Staximus]

Try thinking with your brain and not with your dick

[Asker]

I’m not really that smart

[Ifdyourmom]

Very bad

[Asker]

Yeah…. Awesome sause…not really

[Ifdyourmom]

I told you the truth, deal with it

[Asker]

I’m not complaining
I lost both girls in the last year
So I’m having to deal with it anyways

[Ifdyourmom]

Right. As you should have