Please Help Me?

[etum22]

I was in a semi-relationship with a girl a few years back, but we ended up losing contact and things fell off. We recently got back in touch and she told me that she wanted to cheat on her HUSBAND with me. Do I reach out to her husband to let him know, or do I just ignore it and do nothing? I'm at a loss.

[SueShe]

If you have a little bit of dignity and self-esteem, then you don't tell anything to anyone and get rid of that girl as quickly as possible.

You don't want to be the cause of a divorce. Even if your intentions are good, the result will be disastrous for the relationship of that couple. Any normal husband would immediately seek a divorce and that is not really what you want to be remembered as: The person that caused the divorce.

Stay out of that conflict and don't see that woman again. A person like that is likely to to even accuse you of breaking her marriage if you let yourself into a relationship.

[etum22]

I haven't said a word to her since. I've just been wrestling with what to do.

[AnonAndrew]

If I were you, I'd just sleep with her, and not tell the husband.

We have evolved for polyandry, where one woman has multiple husbands. Because of this, a woman who is forced to be in a monogamous relationship (by society’s rules that tell us she is “bad” for wanting to be with more than one man), she will always feel a desire to be with another man.

Since society doesn’t allow this, the healthiest adaptation is for her to cheat. So when a woman cheats, it’s a sign of mental and psychological health, and a healthy sexuality, and a positive thing.

[etum22]

I don't want to sleep with her. I am engaged and happy with the woman I'm with. I just know that if my fiancé had thoughts like that, I personally would like to know. That's why I don't know if I should try to let him know.

[AnonAndrew]

@etum22
Oh, yeah, if you're engaged then definitely don't sleep with her! Sorry, I didn't know.

I wouldn't tell the husband. Just leave it alone.

[seeyounexttuesday]

mind your own business. block her and move on.

[etum22]

Well, in case you didn't fully comprehend what I said, she said this to me... therefore making it my business. I'm trying to figure out the most ethical thing to do despite having moved on. I don't want to break up a marriage, but if I were to put myself in his shoes, I would like to know if my wife had thoughts like that.

[seeyounexttuesday]

I comprehended now you comprehend.

[Anonymous]

No, you don't reach out to her husband. You go ahead without telling anybody.

[Nikki1989]

Do nothing, say nothing.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Ew tell her husband

[Anonymous]

Tell her husband