I'm married but in love with another man. Help me?

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The man I'm in love with has no idea I'm married, so he is in no way encouraging this affair, and while I don't want to break my husband's heart, my marriage is an unhappy one, and no matter how hard I try to pretend everything is fine, the unhappiness in my marriage will not go away. The only time I feel happy and content is when I am with this other man, who I have tried numerous times to forget, but it's impossible, and the guilt is killing me. What should I do? I simply need some advice because I am currently stuck between a rock and a hard place.

ChicoFromThe305 · Accepted Answer

Then people tell me I'm exaggerating when I have an issue with opposite sex friends, I know this type of shit happens, both at fault here, both failed to communicate with each other about their issues and so then one chose to look for it somewhere else, the guy failed to care and here they are, if you aren't willing to put more effort to your marriage then by all means end it, there's no point of staying married to not hurt someone's feelings mostly considering the fact that you are doing something that will lead to the same result, I see this ending in two ways, you divorce and break his heart doing so or you'll cheat and break his heart anyways.

glennos89 · Accepted Answer

You should brake up with your man. What your doing is leading him on which eventually will only break his heart 10x as much when he finds out about your feelings for another man. Be a woman and dump the guy before he finds out himself

MissTrix · Accepted Answer

What makes it unhappy? Your man is lazy so nothing? No dates or effort?

So your the basic no excitement in marriage and this new guy excites me. Cause it's not love probably just or needing to be excited or with someone who cares... Big crush 🥰

Starts off emotionally cheating and into physicianaly cheating...

Do you want to fix your marriage or keep it boring and not try? Going to tell him one day I cheated and divorced?

Or just don't want to cheat but no reason not to but guilt?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You think you are unhappy now wait until you get divorced. This other man won't want you because unlike your husband he knows exactly what you are.

There are so many unhappy divorcees out there unhappy because they got rid of a good man who loved them.

I will pray for your husband

Summeroflove · Answer

You’re hurting two people and instead you’re more worried about yourself then feeling remorse. It’s time to confess to both men what’s going on before you get hurt or you get someone else hurt.

If you love him divorce your husband and marry him. He deserves to find someone who genuinely loves him as well.

Anonymous · Answer

Well I'm glad the guilt is killing you. It should be. You are 100% in control of this situation. Just CHOOSE to do the right thing, cut ties with the other guy and figure out how to fix your marriage.

Oldschool1981 · Answer

My wife sees other guys on the side. It's really no big deal

Anonymous · Answer

Divorce him if you don’t love him anymore , don’t continue like things are fine when they’re not.

californiareaper · Answer

The guy you are in live with had no idea you're married? You're a skank skeezer

Anonymous · Answer

For example, you can divorce your husband and marry the man you love. It's not hard.

jahaims · Answer

You're trash

I'm married but in love with another man. Help me?

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