Failed talking stages?

[avony12]

Everytime I end a talking stage with a guy, I find out a few days later they end up going back to their exes. I kid you not, at least 3 of them try to reconnect with their exes. Why is that?

[Summeroflove]

They aren’t really over their exes but look don’t concern yourself with them it’s not your business or responsibility what they do. Even if they are going back to failed relationships.

I cannot read their minds but I can offer possibilities. One is that they’re using you as a rebound maybe even to make their ex jealous but when that didn’t work out they went back. They are probably going through the bargaining stages of grief.

It may not always be a attempt to make someone jealous. They may just be trying to move on but haven’t yet. It can be a lot of things.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Its the type of men you are going for, you keep finding men that are fresh out of relationships for some reason, that's no good lol, everyone knows people must give themslevess time off after a failed relationship to let the feelings go away before entering a new one

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Because they’re easy marks. That has nothing to do with you