Should this end in divorce?

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I’ve been married for 7 years, last night for some reason the wife and I argued.. I walked away and went to bed. I fall asleep and get awoken by 4 police officers.. her reason for calling cops was she felt threatened and was scared. Should I go back home? I’m currently in a hotel

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

Dude, that's a really tough situation. Getting the cops called on you by your wife is no joke. I can't imagine how stressed and confused you must be feeling right now.

Honestly, I don't think you should go back home right away. It seems like tensions were really high and she felt unsafe, even if that wasn't your intention. The smart move is to give each other some space to cool off for now.

I know it sucks being in a hotel, but it's probably better than risking things escalating further. Take some time to really think about what happened and how you two can work through this. Counseling or mediation might be a good idea to help you guys communicate better and figure out the root of the problem.

At the end of the day, you gotta do what's best for you. Divorce is a huge decision, so I wouldn't jump to that just yet. Try talking things out first, but also don't stay in an unhealthy situation. Protect yourself, but also be willing to work on the relationship if you both still want to.

It's a tough call, but stay strong, bro. You'll get through this, one way or another. Let me know if you need any other advice.

AnonAndrew · Accepted Answer

It's impossible for us to say, because we don't know what either one of you said or did.

LEBANONPRINCESS · Accepted Answer

Why would your wife call the Police over you if you didn't harm her? To be honest She is not a good wife... A woman that calls the cops over her husband of 7 years for no good reason is going to do worse if you stay longer with her... Such Women that call the cops over their husbands for no good reason are Narcissists and Psychos too...

She could do anything and ac use you pf having fone it, worse is that she won't give yiu peace trust my words... She will always say "I'm the Boss not you"... And she might prevent you from seeing your kids only to take revenge.

emeraldsaphire · Accepted Answer

I mean, I kinda consider that a form of abuse. Obviously, it's hard to make any kind of meaning full judgment from story, told from your perspective. I suspect there is a lot of context missing here. I will say, if she is willing to make false statements to get the police to show up. Then a divorce will be really hard. Especially if you have kids.