Am I a bad person or toxic a little for breaking up with a girl on her birthday even if she was a friend?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Sorry, but you broke up with her as a friend or as a girlfriend. Either way it does seem a little inconsiderate. And if you didn't know it was her birthday prior to then yeah it could be a little toxic.

[alice55]

Unless she was abusive with you I think you could have wait some days 1 weeks after...

[Little_Bumblebee]

On their birthday is just nuclear assholeness honestly.

I broke up a situationship/dating-thing a week before his birthday when I realized I was going to end it, because I wasn't going to be fake on the day, or meet his friends when knowing I was going to end it.

I broke up with a boyfriend a few weeks before we were meant to go on this big trip with his family, basically for the same reason. If my feelings weren't where they were supposed to be, it wasn't fair to him either. And I didn't want to walk around on a big trip, pretending that everything was okay.

[septemberintherain]

Definitely a choice that lacks empathy in my opinion, but you don’t give many details on the reasoning behind it.

[red-lipstick-girl]

Why on her birthday and not on any other day? This is so thoughtless, she will remember this every birthday.

[Asker]

Okay, makes sense.

[MemeSupreme]

it's an asshole move unless she cheated or did something wrong like at that level

[Nikki1989]

Need some more context, but it does show a lack of consideration for her feelings.

[UrsulaY]

If you have to ask you already know you could have waited 24 hours

[sophie123469]

Unless she’s completely awful surely you could’ve waited a week or at least a few days.

[Hawaiikai]

Yes you should of at least waited