What platforms are guys using to post, rate, expose, exploit, humiliate, and degrade their exes and other women?

[Anonymous]

Ending a 4 and 1/2-year relationshit. It's been an ugly breakup. And I have recently received a TON of Facebook friend requests. Easily over 100. Guys and girls actually. Every part of me believes that I've been doxxed or whatever you call it. I know my ex posted revenge p*** and put my information out there because he's done it before , but I need to find out where it's been posted. Part of me feels like it shouldn't matter Even though my personal safety is clearly at risk. But at the end of the day I have a right to know what has been posted about me. If nothing else, I need to figure it out for my own peace of mind cuz I'm going crazy cuz I can't prove it right now.

[ShellyB]

I don’t know, years ago my then boyfriend was showing off nudes and vids of me to his friends. I demanded he delete them and he said he did, I tried to grab his phone to see but he wouldn’t let me reach it, I broke up with him over it. After that I spent years dreading them showing up somehow like being anonymously emailed to my dad or posted online. Two years ago a friend of a friend told me that he saw a vid of me on pornhub. But, he is a sarcastic person who jokes a lot and I could never tell if it was a joke, he gave mixed signals about that and, as far as I know he wasn’t aware of the thing w my ex so it is possible he just made it up and didn’t know that it would seem possible to me. I tried looking on pornhub but there are so many vids there what do you even search for.

This is a big problem in the world today and the only solution is for guys to never do anything mean or girls to never do anything dumb which means there is really not a solution, though for any given girl, I will advise you like others will advise you not to let anybody else control any nudes of you that are identifiable as you, I can’t tell you how many hours I have spent worried about my nudes becoming public.

[SueShe]

If you have been "doxed" and that you were so careless as to allow yourself to be taken on pictures or videos naked, then you are the only one at fault.

You knew that sooner or later, those pictures and visuals would end in the depth of the internet as revenge porn and yet, you allowed it. That is a lack of the most basic privacy measures and you were actually endorsing it since you were aware that this relationship would not last a lifetime.

If you did not allow pictures and other visuals to be taken by your ex boyfriend but found some fakes on the internet, then I suggest you press charge against him but somehow, I get the feeling that you did indeed allow nudes to be taken of you.

[Abbycado]

Yeah, not sure given the size of the internet how you track those down. They can spread.

[SueShe]

@Abbycado If they are on the internet, they are lost to you forever because nothing and nobody can prevent you to save these pictures and then either post them online elsewhere.

[Abbycado]

That is why I only allow pics from booty down. Whose booty is that? 🤷🏻‍♀️

[SueShe]

@Abbycado Wise decision. I don't allow any pictures, regardless of which part.

[LiamJHayden]

Why would they do that unless they were whiny losers?

[Abbycado]

I would never do that and haven’t had it done to me. No idea where someone would post that stuff. Do a reverse image search of the pics you think he would have posted and see if they show up in searches that link you the website maybe?

[Nikki1989]

Staying off the internet is the only way to be truly safe from any of that.

[Anonymous]

Not a guy thing. Women have are we dating the same guy on fbook

[Anonymous]

Gather evidence and ruin that man. This is why I’m glad I have the name of one of my exes if he pulls that shit I’ll ruin him.