Do you feel better once you get sage time?

[Simslover92]

So update on the ex.

We had fun. Lots of fun. 😉

After the movie, we sat down at a restaurant and I got more clarity with how he feels and although the chance of us getting back together is rather slim, there is hope that one day that could be a small possibility.

But I'm no longer going to hold my breath. I'm moving on for good this time. It's time.

I feel more confident. And I'm just going to focus on myself and grow more.

Oh and sage time means getting clarity after a certain event. I would say the other meaning but I don't want this in that certain category.

[7Phoenix7]

I feel like the sage time is exactly what you needed.

You found peace, closure, and a few other good things lol 🔥.

You are a beautiful woman, and a Phoenix... you continue to grow stronger.

[sage2021]

7 Phoenix7

Yep! She's our sista ❤️
Time is on your side sis. 🙏🏼 . prayer is something that would help too

[Simslover92]

Aww thank you both. That means a lot!

And yes @7Phoenix7 it is exactly what I needed.

@sage2021 indeed prayer is definitely something I will be doing to help me get through

[WhitneySnow]

Sage time is good 😍

[Finchie40]

Happy to hear you made a final decision, I know you were back and fourth on what to do , but sometimes sage time is good when you aren’t too sure

[Simslover92]

Right it is indeed!

[Finchie40]

Out of curiosity what didn’t you like about the date with him? What was it that made you realize he is best to stay an ex

[Simslover92]

I liked the date just fine but it was ultimately his answer of saying that we may have a small possibility to get back together one day but that I shouldn't hold my breath. I'm not going to be holding out for a small chance that we could get back together one day. I need to move on and see what else is out there. I love him but I need to choose me first.

[Finchie40]

Yes, always choose yourself first especially to someone that doesn’t really know what they want , one thing I learned in life is to never be a convenience to anyone , you should always be a priority to someone that wants to be with you. So if you aren’t a priority to them , then move on and find someone that will make you their priority the same way you make them yours. I wish you the best

[Simslover92]

Thanks! I certainly will!

[OneViewpoint]

Choose yourself first. There ya go!

[ohsheeT]

Well it's something that maybe both needed yes I was thinking sage what's sage. Where i live have sage brush lol

[nawtee_me]

I am proud of you for taking the chance and going to the movie with him. Clarity is always a good thing. Making up your mind to move on and focus on you is even better. Now maybe you can reflect and use this to start writing?

[Simslover92]

Perhaps so

[nawtee_me]

@Simslover92 what do you like to write about?

[Simslover92]

Paranormal romance at the moment

[nawtee_me]

As in succubi and incubi? Or a husband/wife that is still hanging around after death?

[Simslover92]

No a girl falls for a ghost

[nawtee_me]

How do they meet? A near death experience maybe?

[Simslover92]

No she moved into the house he is haunting.

[nawtee_me]

Okay I can see that. A version of “ A Ghost and MrsMuir”. There was a TV series or maybe a movie when I was young. The 1940 something version was before my time.

[Shiprex]

Good for you @Simslover92

Give yourself a break and live f8r growing and building

[Simslover92]

Thanks!

[exitseven]

I was just about to ask what the heck is sage time. Thanks for clearing that up for me.

[Simslover92]

You're welcome

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Hopes and reason combined have to feel good, yep

[Lynx122]

Good for you :) Yes it's very important to have clarity.

[MannMitAntworten]

So far with each split up there has been no further dialog to follow.

[NathanDavis]

what is sage time?

[Simslover92]

I can't really say it on here but let's just say it rhymes with most rut clarity.

[NathanDavis]

lmfao... now THAT's hilarious

[NathanDavis]

but, to answer no... I actually don't believe in such thing as ghost cult clairvoyance

my perceptions seem to be as acute, before, during and after any, either or such ectoplasmic activities and situations...

or maybe I just really haven't experienced them yet?

[Simslover92]

Oh ok lol

[NathanDavis]

nobody asked for my advice but... exes is something we should never recycle... lol

especially when things didn't end well

[Simslover92]

Yeah I'm figuring that out now lol. Took a minute but I realize it's for the best.

[NathanDavis]

glad for you... how have you been?

[Simslover92]

I've been good thanks. How about you?

[NathanDavis]

I'm good too (=

[Simslover92]

That's great 😊

[Xawyx-2]

Yes, I feel just like you :)

[hello4433]

I thought you both would end up in bed