Why do so many single/ divorced moms expecting nothing out of fathers?

[Anonymous]

Society always tries to hide this. But the reality is.. once men divorce or leave their wives, they rarely ever do anything for the children. I know one man who sees his kids once a week (literally just goes over to their house to play with them or buy them ice cream) then he goes home.

Meanwhile, he never had to miss out on work to take care of his sick son. He doesn't even pay child support because his ex wife makes too much money 200k. His wife literally DOES EVERYTHING. From teaching, homework, preparing lunchboxes, taking off work to care for the child when its sick, taking the kid to doctor appointments, driving her child to piano classes.

This guy isn't the only one that is like this. I know plenty of other dads who do absolutely NOTHING for their kid after they stop living together under 1 roof.

As someone who grew up with a very involved dad and mom that made tremendous sacrifices to raise me, I can't understand how there is utterly NO OUTRAGE. Women just tolerate this as like a normal accepted thing.

In my opinion, if you are doing nothing to raise your own kid, you shouldn't have the right to see your kid. Because its obvious you do not care about your kid. A father who shows up only whenever he feels like it, is not a father. There is a saying "men see having a kid, as like he is having a dog" is utterly true.

There are men who complain that they want custody of their kids, I can tell you there is even a BIGGER SHARE of men who simply do not want to take care of their kids.

[Anonymous]

Just like a lot of deadbeat moms. This isn’t a one way street that’s for sure. I probably know just as many deadbeat moms as you do deadbeat dads. Both genders have shitty people, stop trying to drop everything on men like men are the ones who are repainted for everything gone wrong. Let me guess you have a deadbeat man on your hand who is the father of your son or daughter? I know a lot of women who’s their kids against the father to gain leverage, like my brother’s kids’ mom. Worked ever since he could, now working firefighting. But she decided she still wanted to be out there on her own partying w all her female friends from high school who were single. So now he has the kids, but she doesn’t pay child support. He doesn’t ask her too but she should because they’re her kids too. I got my son when I was 22. Deployed overseas, his mom decided she was going to get knocked up by some other dude. Yes we were married. But unlike you I know there’s still a lot of good women out there. For the dude who sees his kid once a week, he’s a POS.

[mrshooiser]

Cause they dont nothing. Asking a man for help is liking talking to a wall.

[Anonymous]

Why do you think the divorce happened? A lot of men are deadbeat a-holes.

[jahaims]

They know they let some useless trash nut in them