If you could move on quickly from one person to another was it really love?

[SunnyRS]

For some people it's easy to move on for some it takes time, so it's just a question for those it is easy to move on quickly, how do they do it?

[aaron13547]

I think it's about loving yourself... love is a selfish thing. It's ill love you if you do the things I like. I mean sure we do things we don't want to for people we love but it's because we value them more then that things we don't want to do. It's proving we love them to ourselves. Still selfish in my opinion. So to be able to move from one person to another is to know love is selfish. The people I love the most I don't always like. The people I love the most make me grow and grow with me. Life is easier because they are around. Love can't be forced it just has to be. I think being able to move quickly from one person to another is to love oneself more then anyone else. It's not loving the other people it's loving yourself. It's not exactly right but it's not exactly wrong. It's being stuck with one part of the whole thing love really is...

[dudeinohio]

I can usually move on immediately. I think logically. If its over, then I simply look for someone new.

[Shehnaz]

Absolutely, the sooner you move on to another person the more serious was the love for the previous one.

How logical.

[SunnyRS]

Was that sarcasm mam?

[Nikki1989]

Why does it have to be love to be with someone? That is teenager, immature talk.

[AviatorTom]

You can move on to another person and still love your ex, especially if your ex is the one who initiated the breakup.

[Hardon-Collider]

It depends on what kind of love it was. Some relationships are based on a mutual attraction, a feeling of being 'on fire' with each other. If that's the only thing holding the two people together, then of course it can end easily. It's a feeling, and feelings can fade. But there's a deeper kind of love, a bond between souls. When two people have a real, lasting connection, that connection continues even after one dies. The person who is still alive on Earth continues their journey, but they carry that bond with them. It doesn't just end. So for some people, it feels easy to 'move on' because the love was based on something that could naturally end. For others, love is a bond that persists beyond death. It's not about moving on; it's about understanding the nature of the connection that was made.

[Straight2thepoint]

Love is love. Moving on is different. Such as loving a song but once you find a new song to love, you move on from the other song. The old one remains as a likable song. You're confusing love as in loving you mother or father. When she's gone, you can just move on.

[Anonymous]

no. because what people don't realize is that a marriage or relationship tends to die long before couples break up. it is naive to assume that the couple were madly in love up until the point of breaking up

[LiamJHayden]

Love is the choice to seek the better for another. If that person proves unworthy, why would I lament over hr and wait to find someone who is worthy?

[WhitneySnow]

Maybe but that probably shows it wasn’t really that deep

[genericname85]

it may have been at one point. but if you can move on quickly, that point was probably rather long ago.

[DrPepper12]

Yes. Everyone is different. Would you ask the same question about grief or bereavement?