I have lost a couple of people I deeply loved; 1 was taken by me as he lost his life due to a horrible attack on him so was unexpected and changed my life. The other was due to circumstances beyond our control.
You go over things in your mind such as the what ifs... What if I had been there? What if things were different? Could I have changed anything? The facts are these are a waste of time as you cannot change anything after it has happened. If you can fix them then make the effort but if they are gone with no choice in the matter you have to let them go.
The problem is we get scarred hearts and right now I am in love with another man and I feel like he's my forever but I am scared something happens to him. While we let go of our love, these people never leave us and they shouldn't, we learn our harshest lessons the deepest. To love and lose is to ensure we hold on tighter next time so look at it for what it is, chemicals, science and conditioning. Hold on to your next love and go all in because you know how rare they are to find.
I surrounded myself with positive people, if I stayed isolated it would just make me become overwhelmed with my own thoughts.
I also tried to put more attention on my goals if I didn’t have any then I’ll start creating some and tend to shift my focus towards my future.
First of all need to hold your head up high need to think about all the positive things and then you need to say I really love this person this person doesn't love me and I can't make that person love you because then it would be false so you accept it that's the very first thing you do you accept it acknowledge it and then you just move on I know that sounds easy but it's not and I know that too but you just take one step in front of the other the faster you do it the better off you will be take the positive from it take all the good times incorporate them into your life because you can share them with somebody else
Time and distance.
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My bible study leaders say that if you put your beliefs and values and social output above your romantic relationship, you will never be disappointed beyond belief when a relationship ends. Like if a guy rejects me, I might lose the second most important person in my life but I did not lose the most important person in my life, the first is God is he is more important than any guy.
Depends on why you no longer have that person in your life. I don’t know if you “move on” but rather that you “grow on.” You learn that that person can’t/doesn’t/won’t fit into your life anymore and that now you need or can give something greater than you could before.
Or some people pine away forever for a lost love. I know I pined away for many years until I learned how short life truly is and that I want to love again.
You write a list of all the shitty things they’ve done to you and read it every time you miss them.
I had diary entries and I remember venting there during my panic attacks caused by my ex. I’d read it every time I missed him.
Eventually as time goes by you move on.
When your heart says "Remain!" but your mind say "it's pointless go away" you tear your heart out of your breast and you squeeze it until heart mash slips together with blood between your fingers. Then you go away without saying a word.
m Not holding on to the past accepting that things are not going to fix or work out keep in your mind the reason it didn't work out and surround yourself with friends and family keeping yourself busy
By remembering why they have to move on in the first place.
When they either find someone they love more or their love is unrequited.
by trying to forget them deleting the pictures blocking from everywhere etc
Distance and time.
If someone is unwilling, all is fantasy.
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