Would you break up with someone on/right before their birthday? If not, how long would you wait?

[Anonymous]

yes

1-2 weeks

2 weeks to a month

1-2 months (coward, it'll be Christmas by then)

A total of 19 votes were cast: 7 girls and 12 guys. See detailed results

[mysteriousNicholas]

I voted the last options for laughs and because I may as well be a male cow aka a bull lol 🐮 🐄

Anyways ; thankfully I've never had to dump a woman.

[mysteriousNicholas]

Human beings - we sure like to be blunt with the word dump. Lol 😆😂

[mysteriousNicholas]

Allow me to moo on command , no troll, no spammer. Moooo 🐮🐄

[Screenwriter]

I'm not sure what someone's birthday has to do with anything. Have you been avoiding this breakup until it's finally their birthday and you're even more uncomfortable about it? As someone else said, get this over with. The longer you wait, the more dishonest you'll be toward yourself and them. Do it right after the party and tell them why you waited. That's the best I can think of.

[Nikki1989]

Their birthday has nothing to do with anything.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

That's why I always have my birthday a week early when I'm dating

[mysteriousNicholas]

@Telekinetic-Potato *trophy for telekinetic 🥔🍠 potato* 🏆

[Telekinetic-Potato]

@mysteriousNicholas yay! 😂

[MikeTheBartender]

There is always going to be a special occasion, this week. It's the birthday, next week, it's Thanksgiving, then it's Christmas, then it's New Year's, then it's Valentine's Day, I wouldn't do it on that day of course, but I think a couple of weeks after is fine. It would be much worse to keep leading them on.

[CaptainSalt]

Theree is no magical "right time" to dump someone. It will hurt. And there's always an excuse for why its the "wrong day." What really hurts is putting on a smile and pretending like its ok day after day. Just get it over with.

[OneViewpoint]

Before. It’s never a good time. Just do it.

[mysteriousNicholas]

Nike can't be wrong 🤣🏀🤭. "Their slogan

[janemarie15]

OMG I did this! 1week before his birthday I broke with him. But the twist is, I still send my gifts to him haha I contacted his sister. Its no problem on this scenario. If has a valid reason of breaking up with your partners do it.

[jJanSmit]

It's unfair to not be honest and postpone the inevitable. They'll notice anyway, unless you're a very good actor

[Anonymous]

Yes. They should understand the consequences of their actions

[bunnyboo24]

No.. thats horrible

[mysteriousNicholas]

It's not very Christian either 😶😶‍🌫️✝️

[bunnyboo24]

@mysteriousNicholas true

[mysteriousNicholas]

@bunnyboo24 we must hold dear our cultural values ✝️🙏🏻✝️

[mysteriousNicholas]

@bunnyboo24 *continued on which we are to rely, as per a Family Guy 📺 did you like that? 🙏🏻✝️

[Flower7]

I guess I’d have it at least a week away.

[mysteriousNicholas]

That's what some other guy said above or below lol 😅

[Flower7]

I’m not the most considerate person sometimes lol.

[mysteriousNicholas]

Nobody's perfect
The phrase has become an in thing again @Flower7 be a good flower now 🌺