Girls, If you received a thank you and goodbye message from your ex you broke up with 2 weeks ago, how would you feel?

[Anonymous]

I’d think it’s a nice parting message

I would find it creepy or that he has ulterior motive

[HollyK21]

Depends on how the breakup happened. Like if it was amicable and we both got closure then I wouldn’t see the need for him to reach out to say thank you and goodbye again.

[Asker]

How do you mean?

[HollyK21]

Well, how did the breakup go? Amicable means you left things on good terms, it was a peaceful breakup, etc. So if you ending things “amicably”, there’s no need to reach out again to say goodbye and thank you, because you would’ve already done that.

If the breakup was bad, maybe there was a fight and it ended on bad terms, then I don’t see a big issue with trying to give her closure now.

[Amy_Mi]

It depends on your emotional state and the context of the breakup.

Some might feel closure and appreciate the maturity, while others could feel a mix of nostalgia, sadness, or even irritation if they’re still processing.

A thoughtful goodbye can be seen as respectful, but it may also trigger old feelings.

It’s natural to reflect on the relationship, but you can choose to focus on your own healing and boundaries rather than the message itself.

[Nikki1989]

It would never happen. We actually talk to each other.