How would you feel if you received this message from ex 3 weeks after breakup?

[Anonymous]

Hey I just wanted to say thank you for being a great girlfriend the past year. I’ll always have great memories from our time together (whether it’s our hot tub with the bugs in Wales, neon painting in the cavern, playing Skyrim, picking out vinyls for listening parties, feeding birds or playing around in museums with your creative mind). I’ve learnt so much about myself and what I want and need in relationships especially given my lack of experience (not counting non serious 20s ones, I’d say you were my first proper adult relationship) and I’ve learnt how to take better photos. 😜

Even though it didn’t work out in the end (and I think on reflection it was the right decision), Im grateful you gave me the opportunity to get to know you and be a part of your life and purple haven & helping me find a bit more confidence :) I hope the next chapter of your life brings you much joy and happiness and ultimately, I hope you find what you’re looking for :) It’s up to you but I hope we can part on good terms and Im happy to keep in touch if you are :) but for now, I bid you farewell.

I’d think it’s a nice message

I’d be suspicious

Id be creeped out

I would think nothing

[Amy_Mi]

Receiving a message like this three weeks after a breakup would likely stir mixed emotions.

On one hand, it’s thoughtful, reflective, and shows gratitude for the time shared it acknowledges growth, shared experiences, and respects boundaries.

On the other hand, it could trigger nostalgia or sadness, especially if the breakup is still fresh.

The key is to focus on the intention behind it they’re expressing closure and kindness, not trying to reopen the relationship.

A simple, polite acknowledgment or choosing to take it as a heartfelt goodbye can help you maintain emotional balance while appreciating the sentiment.

[Anonymous]

Can you just stop spamming about this. At this point, seeing how you spam this website with the same question over and over, you probably should leave her alone. You likely have the same obsessive spammy behavior and vibes with her too. So to answer your question: don’t message her. She would probably be annoyed if not creeped out.

[Asker]

I haven’t messaged her since we split

[DreamCrescent]

if she’s sad or heartbroken, this message isn’t nice. in that case just leave her alone

[Asker]

@DreamCrescent I doubt it, think she’d be content given she ended it

[Anonymous]

Girls, If you received a thank you and goodbye message from your ex you broke up with 2 weeks ago, how would you feel?