What should I say to this "after break up" message?

[Anonymous]

I broke up with my now ex girlfriend 2 days ago. It hurts so badly but we both knew it was a toxic relationship so we ended it on mutual terms. Yesterday she sends me this:

"there's some things I want to tell you too, you got the chance to think about things for a day and tell me yesterday I have some things I've been thinking about that I also need to tell you"

I understand she might need closure but having to talk to her again will kill me when I need to move on for my own sake. Whats the right thing to do? I'm having trouble being mean and rejecting her request but I also know I need to start thinking about my own health.

[Guy13]

Sorry for your loss, man. They say break-ups from a committed relationship is like having a close family member die. This means their is usually a longer than normal grieving period and it makes sense. Actually, in these break-ups it is worse as the parties often relive it. And, like on your case each has something to say about something that happen etc... and it is like continuing the argument.

That being said, a one-time get together final words is acceptable. There should only be one of these for closure and then move on. Keep your head and know when to say thank you, enough, and sorry, wish it could have been different. Perhaps, giving yourself a year to recover from the up and down of grieving is a good idea.

[devilish-cutie]

you can politely say to her all you wrote here why you dont want to meet her

[Anonymous]

I think you should talk to her, and give yourself some closure as well.