Is it bad to ask for owed payments and things she bought that I paid her for after breakup?

[Anonymous]

Yes let it go

no ask for it

[Nikki1989]

You obviously do not understand the concept of gift giving.

[Asker]

The weren’t gifts, we agreed to split the cost when we were still together

[slatyb]

If you paid for them, they were gifts. I can't imagine it's worth the trouble unless you bought her a car.

[Anonymous]

You can ask for what she owes you, but not things you bought/paid for.

[ChangeMefot]

Go for it