He pushed me to the point of no return?

[Anonymous]

I no longer want to move forward with this guy and I told him I need to separate , but I want to end the connection with no chance of reconciliation.. for months he strung me along, played mind games, showed inconsistency, lied, was manipulative, and said hurtful dismissive things. He's used to me coming back , but I'm not coming back this time

Updates

6 mo

How to heal and move forward? There's no trust with him and I anymore.. he wanted to come to my house for Thanksgiving - he said he was coming ( I didn't believe it) he makes plans and bails out when the time comes around

[Anonymous]

Not the matter of man or woman, but maturity/childishness or rudeness/respect. Treat him like the grass outdoors, just there.. nobody really cares about it.

For it is, opposite of love is carelessness.
Take care.

[beenherebefore]

Be firm and make your boundaries clear. Block him on everything.

[Asker]

I did.. just wasted time for 7 months while I was in a difficult time... last conversation was him saying he didn't need me after I was here the whole time feeling unappreciated

[beenherebefore]

Forget about all that. If you're committed to never go back to him block all forms of contact with him.

[Asker]

He is blocked because he blocked me on everything after I tore his ass up

[Asker]

But yeah he blocked because he blocked me

[beenherebefore]

So what exactly are you asking here?

[Asker]

Healing and moving forward

[In_Trance]

So what's your question