I feel horrible. My grandmother died recently I warned him I am a emotional mess right now. But i never disrespected him he is my guy friend of 4 months working to be in serious relationship but say I pushed himawayso here my apology: I am so sorry I didn’t mean it that way it’s just that we are long distant and we are so far I get concerned or worried and ask questions. I am not insecure or it’s not that I don’t trust you it’s just that long distance is so new for me. I didn’t mean anything I said I didn’t mean it that way and I hope you forgive me I don’t want to do any thing to jeoprodize our friendship or if theirs more. I am sorry you mean a lot to me and our friendship and as of more I am ready, yes and I’ll take a risk for u.
no reply. so next morning; morning sexyyyyyy I have gave things thought and I am so sorry I wish that I can take things back that I said I wish I could of done and said things differently and I feel so embarrassed u were so patient it’s me every up and down. I’m so sorry I am never like this from beginning to now. I don’t want to push u away I want to pull u towards and and and 😏 lmao no but really major promise it will never happen again. ( added a joke)
so no reply (hours later) so I say, can we please have a heart to heart conversation to clear things up maturely” he says “Yeah when I have time don’t really have time to talk about shit I’ve already made but when I free up yeah sure “
Truth is I was so confused. He said he wanted one thing but his actions showed another. I initiated most contact. I am the one that say hru? Wyd? How is your day checking on his feelings. He stopped calling me beautiful he stopped asking how I feel. I was there for this man emotionally and he say he is here but he’s not. I am new to relationships never ever had one before and he’s 8 years older. I did not mean any of the things I said when I made him upset this day all I asked was DO YOu have feelings for me yes or no? He did not want to answer
He say I pushed him away with constant questioning and pushyness?
Nope, men don't respond to that level of detail, especially in a long distance situation. If you want him to pay attention you need to use far less words.
Like women have this genetic thing for blowing our phones up uncomfortably but then are oblivious to the fact that the person on the other end of that phone has feelings too.
True but all I wanted to do was be there and love them I wanted friendship he initiated that we should be more then that basically stepped back and lead me on wondering it’s not fair all I wanted was to clear confusion he never wanted to talk about even in the shortest sentence
So you two are at different places in your relationship with each other and want different things. Also he shows some pretty weird and manipulative tendancies or is kinda childish, and you're yoyoing him around. Just leave each other alone and you'll both be happier
Yes he is very rude to me and he is manipulative I really want to say, I am done with being friends or more I am done being in contact I want to walk away. I don’t deserve none of the treatment but then he would make me feel guilty I know he will
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