He thinks I’m pushing him away?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been dating a guy for about two weeks now and it’s going well. Yesterday I bumped into my ex, we’ll me and my ex have the same friends so I saw him through my friends. It really hurt me because he was going to another girls house. This put me in a bad mood and I had plans with the guy I’m seeing. Me my friends and the guy I’m seeings friends were all together but I admit I was acting off, I was being pretty cold because I was just in a sad mood. He got really angry and upset with me and was messaging me saying you were just ignoring me being so cold, you didn’t even say hi. I told him I’m really sorry I just wasn’t myself, how can I make this up to him? I feel so bad. He seems to have calmed down now since last night but I don’t know what I can do to make him feel better.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you’re not over your ex but your ex is over you.
You’re clearly going to see another guy but your ex can’t go and see another girl? What would you like? For your ex to sit at home on his bum crying and hoping you’ll come back while you’re out toting around with another guy? Come on now. Get over it. Some people are so into themselves. And the poor guy you’re seeing had to suffer the consequences of your selfishness and jealousy. He deserves someone with no baggage.