Was I groomed at the age of 14/15?

[Anonymous]

I just got out of a 8 year old long distance relationship cause it was holding me back and I couldn't take feeling stuck any longer. He understood.

We got together when I was 14-15. He was 24. So 10 years ahead of me.

How we got in touch, was my obsession with lolita, and my obvious daddy issues. He didn't even know about the book though. But we got along well. Felt like he got me. All these years, I've felt that way. But now that we've started to end things, some things I've been denying (blinded by love) is coming to the surface.

Does this sound like grooming, even though I love him as a person and have nothing but good things to say about him. The distance is the only issue for me and the reason for our breakup.

[Anonymous]

When you first met him did you reveal your age to him? I’d say yes in a way you’re if he knew your age. Aside from talking did you ever send him inappropriate pics?

[Asker]

My profile said 18 because I was not able to make one. But told him quite soon after we talked. Yes sent pics

[Opinion Owner]

So I’m assuming these were nudes? If so I think yes he groomed you, played on your emotions. I’m not sure how things are w your family, your father but he may have tapped into that.

[Anonymous]

You must be Republican supporters.

[Asker]

Haha no. Why do you think that? I'm not even from the US

[TallAnon]

Yes.

[jahaims]

You're an idiot