Did someone make you heal or did you have to heal yourself from a past relationship?

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I feel like it's both for me. Like I healed myself but sort of having someone to like has made it easier to heal.

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

Healed myself. Doesn't ever take long for me at all. It's easy as long as you have a rational mind.

"Why bother yourself with thoughts about someone who doesn't value you? Find someone who does."

"A father said to his daughter “You have graduated with honors, here is a car I bought many years ago. It is pretty old now. But before I give it to you, take it to the used car lot downtown and tell them I want to sell it and see how much they offer you for it.”

The daughter went to the used car lot, returned to her father and said, “They offered me $1,000 because the said it looks pretty worn out.”

The father said, now “Take it to the pawn shop.” The daughter went to the pawn shop, returned to her father and said,”The pawn shop offered only $100 because it is an old car.”

The father asked his daughter to go to a car club now and show them the car. The daughter then took the car to the club, returned and told her father, “Some people in the club offered $100,000 for it because it’s a Nissan Skyline R34, it’s an iconic car and sought by many collectors!”

Now the father said this to his daughter, “The right place values you the right way. If you are not valued, do not be angry, it means you are in the wrong place. Those who know your value are those who appreciate you…Never stay in a place where no one sees your value.”

Never stay, move on…"

TonyMetal___86 · Accepted Answer

I have healed on my own but not comoletely and i believe that in order to be completely healed, it takes someone else to fully heal me!

Finchie40 · Answer

Healed myself , and realized I deserve someone that wants me like I want them

sage2021 · Answer

You already know my story. Maybe we just never completely heal, but we just continue to get up everyday and breathe and get through each day.

Even though our hearts are broken 💔 they still keep on beating.

During the first year I think that I was the one who healed the parts that would heal. Sure, I had a friend who would listen when I needed to talk but I knew she couldn't relate to what I was experiencing because she was happily married.

I remember that I stopped eating for 3 months. I would just drink glasses of whole milk. I had cut smoking my cigarettes, was down to 3/day. But when he left I was smoking 🚬 3 packs a day. My cigarettes were my comfort. They always helped me to get through hard times.
Don't try this at home!

Bitter_Sweet94 · Answer

Healing was mostly something I had to do myself.

No one else can do the work for you.

Support and care from others can help, but the real change, reflection, and growth comes from within.

That’s where clarity and strength really come from.

Vevv123 · Answer

Alone. I feel like learning to heal alone is important. Kind of how they say you shouldn’t use something external (like alcohol for example) to cope, because then you’re not really dealing with the root of it. And if you rely on another person to cover it up, you never truly learn how to go through the hard parts.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have never had to heal. I simply move on. It really isn't that difficult if you have the inner strength, motivation, and confidence.

FreyaRed · Answer

It died slowly while being in relationship and the healing process was already done as I said it's over.

Still-alive · Answer

Healing is ultimately up to you to go through however will say if you have good supportive friends it can help the process a bit more. so if you got a good friend or group i say go ahead and hang out.

snermcger · Answer

A little prison time and settling some unfinished business after, helps soothe a man's soul. The Monongahela cleans and washes a lot of troubles away.

OneViewpoint · Answer

No one can make you heal. That has to come from you when you’re ready and in your own way.

MemeSupreme · Answer

no just me, but they have helped me heal before in other ways

Anonymous · Answer

And who’s this person? Because clearly u are juggling between a lot of males

beenherebefore · Answer

I had to heal myself. Is no one's responsibility to do that.

exitseven · Answer

I healed myself.  It was not a seamless process.

WonderingManII · Answer

Healing for me is something that takes time and lots of thought and even prayer.

dudeinohio · Answer

Yeah. I was healing myself; but getting into another relationship finished my healing process.

Ironco · Answer

In life you can only heal yourself. You are always alone. Just the way it is.

Anonymous · Answer

You don't have to heal from past relationship, if you never have one xD

JJthedic · Answer

I didn't expect someone else could heal me before. Only you yourself can do make feel better!

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I always just do it myself.

Anonymous · Answer

I never had a past relationship.

Shiprex · Answer

Doing it myself

guesswhereivebeen · Answer

Nothing heals old pussy faster than new pussy

Raydergman26 · Answer

Yes my feonsay

Anonymous · Answer

Me, myself and I

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