My SO say the reason why he abuse me from time to time because he got ptsd & mental issues. Should I stay to get him help or move on?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

That’s not a excuse. You don’t deserve to have something out of your control taken out on you. If someone tells you “I’m doing this and this is why” it’s a excuse. He has free will.

You can be emotionally supportive. That’s amazing. But he can't be doing that. You gotta move on. Sorry…. You can’t make someone stop
Abusing you. Especially if they feel entitled to do it.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

There's never an excuse for abuse, you should leave.

[HollyK21]

@Abbycado I feel like I see this question often😭

[Abbycado]

Yep. And I don't know why it is even a question to start with. There is not a reason for abuse. If this is even true, dude needs to get himself right. She can't do that for him.

[HollyK21]

I don’t think it’s true Abby. I’ve never seen her respond to anyone and to me that’s some of the little morals she has kicking in. It would be gross to carry on a conversation with someone, pretending to be in this situation.

[dudeinohio]

Move on. He needs to seek out help. on his own. Staying with him. is dangerous. Abusers always escalate.

[DryGermanGuy]

How is that even a question? 🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️