Anyway, I texted her yesterday afternoon and asked if I could call her last night, that there were some things (not bad things) that I had wanted to say to her. She said okay. I called last night, and it went to voice mail, so I texted her, asking if it was still okay if I called. She replied a few minutes later that she didn't feel like talking right now. She's been like that before when she's in a "mood," and I don't force it, so I said that it was okay and we could do it another day. She then asked if we could just text, and I said we could about casual stuff, but I'd still prefer to call her about the other stuff. Then she was like, "just tell me, [my name]." And I, again, replied that it was too long and too hard to explain over text, that we didn't have to do it tonight, and that I was fine if she didn't feel like talking right now. Then I added that I wasn't trying to frustrate her with this, so please don't be. She didn't reply back, and I left it alone.
Honestly, I didn't want to cave on this because I thought it was unfair of her not to give me the same chance to talk that I gave her when she wanted to. And I really don't think "serious" conversations are something you should have over text, but I wasn't going to argue at that time. When she's been in a bad mood before, she just needs to be left alone to work through it.
I thought it came off kind of selfish of her, though - what do you think?
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