Why is dating and attracting women so much harder for some men?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

In most case because those people are not windsocks.

I used to go to school with this guy who when we hit adolescence started morphing into a different person. I mean we all do this to and extent but not who we are at our core. But he learned about life and "the game" much quicker than me. Not really surprised his dad was an insurance salesman. Point is he knew you had to act for women. Act like they were f***ing gold. He flirted even when he didn't mean any of it. But this is what you do in life. You climb and lie to get what you want. You're always working and angle. Today he manages a pretty successful car dealership. He has a nice house, is married, has couple kids. Hard to tell how much ACTUAL assets he owns. But that's not the point. He knows life is about the facade. I would never trust a word that comes out of his mouth, but that doesn't matter. Enough do to make him look succesful. You might even say he's successful. I'm almost to a million. But you wouldn't know it by looking at me. I don't have an extensive network of contacts and friends. By every measure he looks more successful and would probably be regarded as such. But you can trust my word.

Welcome to "the game" called life. Want to attract women? You need to start working on you LIE game now! It might even be too late. Most women have been f***ed and tossed to the curb by at least a dozen guys by your age. You're going to have to be a real good liar at this point to sell them b. s. they ain't heard before. Unless you want to aim younger like early 20's.

[capriVib]

Maybe they're not attractive, don't take care of themselves, don't have a good career, or simply lack social skills and don't know how to talk to women.

Some guys are also too picky and have a very specific type, so they stay single for years. The reality is most men won't get their dream girl. They'll have to lower their standards and accept someone average or even below average. Women usually have more options and get to do the choosing in dating.

[Asker]

Can you not have reasonable standards and still be single?

[slatyb]

Because they don't really like woman. They want sex but not a partnership. When they talk to a woman, they don't really converse, they are just wondering what to say to get her into bed. It's pretty obvious, so the women leave the conversation quickly and put him in the "creep" box.

[Nikki1989]

There could be many reasons for that, and men will always find a new excuse to add to the list.

[Asker]

Do you blame a poor person for being poor

[NathanDavis]

because they keep listening to Andrew Tate... instead of the girl that's in front of them, dating them...

[Asker]

Fuck Andrew tate. I prefer Paul Elam who's actually a men's rights activists

[Spencer10]

Because they lack respect for women and them selves.

[Asker]

Plenty of women date men who don't value or respect them that much

[queenofcardio]

So many reasons. Lack of confidence, fear of rejection and anxiety

[Abbycado]

There could be a host of reasons.

[Anonymous]

Cause their ugly?

[LotharioENERZY]

surely one of the reason.

[Asker]

Most people are average looking by default yet there's many men who struggle with dating right now

[Opinion Owner]

No sex appeal. No game

[Asker]

Are men who are in relationships some genius intellects that master the art of talking to women?

[Opinion Owner]

Not master but had to of had the courage to say something AND be attractive