How do you leave a cheater you still love without losing yourself?

[Anonymous]

I know I need to leave him but I love him and can’t imagine the months moving forward without him. He tells me he loves me but I don’t know if he actually does. I’ve caught him stalking other women for months and it breaks me. Makes me feel like I’m not good enough I don't know how to end it without feeling like I’m losing someone so important to me but bad for me

[Screenwriter]

If you feel bad about being treated badly, then that person isn't good for you, no matter how you feel about them. It's clear he doesn't care enough for you because his actions hurt you, and he knows it.

WOrk through you feelings of loss with a therapist and find someone who cares more for you! Good luck.

[ElenaLena]

Dump him ASAP and delete whatever things remind you of him.. and focus on yourself.. after that it needs time.. just be patient..

[DryGermanGuy]

I hate cheaters. Problem solved, or rather, avoided.

[Nikki1989]

Odd question. Why would you lose anything? It is all a gain.

[Anonymous]

You have to just do it. Then in the void with hobbies and other relationships. That guy is not who you are and the relationship is just part of you and your life, not all of it.

[Danny_dan92]

Close the door. Walk away.




It’s not hard. It’s only difficult for you because you got the classic case of dick spell

[Staximus]

You’re not losing yourself, you’re losing a piece of shit. Stop being dumb and have some self respect

[Pterodon]

You only have two choices. Stay with a cheater knowing you’ll never be able to trust him and knowing he won’t change or cut your losses and leave. That’s it. The only two. Good luck

[MrChinaski]

Think of it as gaining 60 years of healthy wellness.

[TonyMetal___1986]

You love your cheater? 🤔
I have nothing to say...

[WhitneySnow]

He doesn’t love you

[dudeinohio]

Dump him. You'll find someone better.