Should I tell her I'm done chasing her?

[Anonymous]

I was chasing after a girl but she called me stupid... I want to tell her some things, and I also want to tell her that I m done chasing after her and I don't want anything to do with her, but I don't want to ruin her new years eve by making her feel bad because I really m stupid. I m stupid cause I care about her.

[NymphoJay]

It doesn't have to make her feel badly. Unless you are willing to stoop to her level and tell her off with the intention of hurting her. In which case I say, just drop it and get away.

If however those are not your intentions, Just tell her, you were after her because you like her but you do not appreciate her clear disrespect towards you and you no longer wish to have anything to do with her.

See? it's simple. That gets you're point across and you didn't have to assail anyone to do it. Well whatever you choose to do, I hope you think it over and don't end up stooping to her cheap level.

Oh, and you are most certainly NOT stupid for caring for her. The fact that she can show you such disrespect yet you can still care for her only shows how you are the bigger person here. It is never stupid to care for anyone no matter who they are.

[zebrasrus969]

Well girls say that to be funny and to be playing hard to get to see if you actually do like her to make sure your not playing her. And just tell her I really like you and tell her what you like about her. Don't say your stupid for saying you care about her give her another chance and tell her that your feelings got hurt when she called you stupid. I hope this helps :)

[NymphoJay]

The fact that this boy is now having this dilemma clearly shows that was not a "Funny" thing to say. If she was really trying to see if he was really into her, she should have said something that wouldn't be so easily misconstrued. Why should he now do all the work to approach her and let her know anything at all? NO. She brought this on herself. Now, If she really IS interested in him SHE should approach him. He has no reason to keep pushing with someone who has the nerve to be so disrespectful

[Asker]

id have to agree with NymphoJay. I realized shell never be capable to love me, so why waste my time?