My ex boyfriend hates me?

[Anonymous]

My ex boyfriend told me I was the devil and that he hates me. He has never said words like that to me ever and this is the first time. But I would understand because I revenged him in a big way that he never saw it coming. He basically cheated and I told his mother and that I know hurt him really deep. His friends keep saying he loves me and all but I'm not taking that sh*t he deserved what I did to him. Now my question is this really hate or just one of those things that people say when they are hurt because I never heard him talk like that before and its really convincing that he hates me to the bone.

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we been together for years this is why I'm asking if someone can hate that to that point

[Stacyzee]

He seems really angry, hurt and betrayed.

If he feels those things then he can sort of understand what you are feeling (although his betrayal was far worst.)

Im sure he didn't mean what he said it was all out of anger. When we feel this way sometimes we say things we don't mean.

Even though what he did was wrong...you should never try to involve anyones parents in a relationship.

It is your relationship not not theirs.

[Asker]

true never involve parents but telling his parents was the only way I could hurt him, its not like I could cheat can't do that. I just don't get why he is angry at me because it was all his actions that got him into sh*t and I just had to reveal that he ain't as sweet as peolpe thought

[Stacyzee]

I know you wanted revenge but two wrongs don't make a right, although it does feel good. lol! It was wrong what he did...but at least he has an idea of some of the hurt he inflicted in you.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

he may be really angry with what you did but that's his problem. more than likely he's angry with himself at what he did to you and realizes he was wrong but can't do anything about it. he did deserve it, but you know how some people get when they get what they deserve. they don't like it.

[BirdofParadise]

Its like what they say, there is a fine line between love and hate. You guys had been together for a long time and had strong feelings for each other. You told his mom because you were hurt and feelings strongly about what happened and he said what he said to you for the same reasons.

[nvestan]

I guess he is angry on you, because by telling this to his parents, It made him realize how badly he behaved. And he didn't want to face it.

You did the right thing, I mean he cheated on you. In fact, by telling it to his parents you gave him a favour, so that he will change, and will be more faithfull next time.

[Konnour]

It's kinda ironical but also.. too expected to see words "ex" and "hate" in a one sentence.

Well ... nooo sh*t! It's your ex!

I mean - it's over. So what's the point?

[Konnour]

Hey, thx for BA.. whoa - it's been 4 months!

[MrOracle]

He's hurt, and embarassed. That's why he feels this way. The opposite of love is not hate, it's apathy. He obviously still cares.

[Asker]

how would you know that he still cares when I am getting cursed by him. I am so convinced that's he hates me

[MrOracle]

I'm not saying that he doesn't hate you right now. I'm sure he does. But you can't hate something if you don't care about it. You have to CARE in order to hate, because hate takes energy, just like love does.

If he never cared about you in the first place, none of this would be any big deal to him.

I realize this doesn't HELP your situation, but at least you kind of understand the thinking behind what's goign on.

[Asker]

yeh I do understand you but I'm the thinking he hates me because I told everyone his dark secret and now is embarrassed, he probably expected me to just walk away with a simple arguement. I odnt only time will tell. Thanks for the answer

[TheStaff_Sergeant]

He's angry, sometimes in the heat of the moment people say things that they

mean for that moment, or things that they don't mean. Unless he's showing signs that he resents you, I wouldn't put to much into it.

[Anonymous]

I'd hate you too so I get him

[Asker]

lol why would you seriously hate me when it would have been your actions putting you in sh*t and would the hate last forever or just temporal.

[Opinion Owner]

you talk to my mom behind my back, I'll hate you for a lifetime