Even though My boyfriend isn't friends with his EX on social media he liking her posts and viewing her stories, they also send messages to eachother every now and again, though none of them are romantic, he has never mentioned to me that they were having any kind of contact. In Fact he always tells me he hates her.
He doesn't know I know all of this, as, I secretly checked his phone when he didn't know I was coming over.
I now feel really, very insecure.
Should I?
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Not sure. So if I've got this right, your previous partner is a woman and your current boyfriend communicates with her over social media but doesn't tell you that and insists he "hates" her. If I've got that right, here's what I think might be going on; first of all, he doesn't hate her. I do not have, nor do I want, casual social media contact with people I hate. Now this is the part I'm less sure about, but I think it's possible he's try to set up a threesome with you and the ex. For some guys they view 2 women at one as the ultimate fantasy/validation of their masculinity. You could just ask him flat out if he wants this. I'm not suggesting you do, but then you'll know if I'm reading this right. If that is what he's up to, then it's up to you if you want that or not.
Oops, on rereading the question, I see I got this all wrong. It's his ex not yours. I feel stupid now, and my advice is ALL wrong. Ignore me.
Him even still following his ex is a red flag.
You’re very naive for not realizing this.
And you have his cock for a blindfold
he still likes her