My ex used to date guys who didn't respect or love or treat her the way she deserves to be treated. For instance she dated a guy who actually never even broke up with her just broke off contact and she has had similar experiences.
She also doesn't stand up for herself, ex. her sister comes to the house she lives in (the parental home her parents are always away they're diplomats) eats the food makes the house messy even has party's in there without cleaning up afterward. Al of that is a lot of extra work for her but she doesn't stand up for herself. Out of fear for social conflict or being disliked or something.
She's also too trusting like she stayed over at a guys place who already used one of her best friends to cheat on his girlfriend claiming he'd break up with his girlfriend and never did. And he tried to take advantage of her ...
And she broke up with me and I still don't know why her reasons never made sense to me stuff like that she didn't deserve me that she was bad for me etc. I think she just got scared it was the first serious relationship for her. But I consider it to be a bad decision on her part since she obviously still loved me when she broke up with me.
Now can I talk to her about this? And how should I bring it up?
Its just we might have broken up but I still love and care about her just like I do about my other 2 ex gf's.
Ow and erh I always select best answere and vote coments up if people put effort into it :)
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