a) if you actually did cheat, and now you want to pick up a fight with her new man, well, eat sh*t and die
b) if you never cheated on her in any way, you should move on and look for someone who respects you
c) if you just want to use her for sex some more rather than want to invest in building something long term/permanent, see (a)
d) what makes you think you can actually win a fight with the boyfriend? as far as how she's going to look at it, if you win you lose, and if you lose you lose. and there's a real risk you may actually get hurt. there are a lot of fit guys who do not walk around in tank tops. I was jumped once outside a bar by some drunken dude. this was outside the U.S., so I used less restraint than normal, to lower the risk to me and my date and because I wasn't likely going to be sued, and that person who likely thought could squash me like a bug, quickly ended up with a dislocated shoulder besides the superficial injuries.
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The reason why she accused you of cheating ... is because she cheated on you herself. You became too attached and dependent on her. This new boyfriend is the guy who did her while you two were still in a relationship.
Your best bet is to learn from it and move on. Work on yourself, hit the gym. Talk to new girls and take one home who's interested in you.
That's the best revenge you can get on her. By replacing her with a new girl. If she attempts to make contact with you, IGNORE IT.
This jealousy, rage, and lack of control of your emotions makes you look bad. It lowers your value.
I would suggest not beating her boyfriend up. If it were me and my ex decided to try and fight my boyfriend First I would be pissed and Second I would hope my ex survived the fight so that I could personally tell him how much of an idiot he is to his face after he got discharged from the ER. Why would I want to get back with someone that showed that kind of jealousy and man-child behavior. If anything just do you and if it's meant to be between you two than you will end up back with her in the long run, but for right now go about your business and live your life no matter how hard it is right now you'll get past it.
If by "smash out", you mean hit- I wouldn't suggest it.
Be the bigger man.
Did you cheat? If not ...
If she accused you of doing something that you didn't, WITHOUT proof.
She is not a woman in my sight. I don't think she is for you. I feel that there is someone better.
You don't need a judgmental person in your life, really.
Uh, no. You need to grow some balls and move on. She found a new guy to go out with which means she's already moved on...
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I've personally done this and won but it didn't solve shit honestly. She's still seeing him it doesn't matter. yes he's a rebound and yes he's a loser but i made the mistake for settling for less. It's not worth it period. And yes i will get here back because i know her very well her emotions are not stable. We talk every day, text each other, go on dates, do what ever and her "new boyfriend" is oblivious he is irrelevant to anything. Its going to take some time and effort usually a month and a half maybe more depending on te person to actually get shit done. Love is love he is a cover up for her feelings if she's truly yours she will come back have ambition it will work out. Dont get mad when you see pics on fb, snapchat or any of that. Texting and calling 24/7 isn't going to do it either. Every once in a while yea sure why not. Be the guy that she fell in love with in the first place. Good luck I've walked this path don't do it
Honestly, that will only drive her away further. You should take that aggression inward and work on things within yourself. Chances are he is only a rebound and nothing to be concerned with. If there is any chance of getting her back, I advise that you respect her relationship and do things that benefit yourself! She will respect that much more, and if/when they break up, you will have your shot at her!
Fight for what's yours so let the f***er have it. Nice guys finish last & don't forget to kick him when he's down. If he's with a buddy, knock him out too. Hell, just wait till he's with a group then knock em all out. Aluminum bats work good as an equalizer. You can really get that KAPINGGG sound with a good swing.
Yeah do it because beating up her new boyfriend is definitely the way to get her back
Chicks love stuff like that
¬_¬it makes you look like the bad guy, just walk away who cares if she has a new boyfriend, maybe they'll break up who know ? just look out for yourself go out have a drink hang out with friends I'm sure you'll find someone else.
Force never works in getting someone back, not to mention if you're in jail it's hard to be romantic..
Haha.. no discipline. she wins either way, no reason to go back to a dude who acts like a boy.
Why would you want to have sex with your ex-girlfriend's new boyfriend?
OH sure! I'll even help you out, just tell me the time and the place.
that won't bring her back...
WTF did he do to you?
Sounds like a plan
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