Help! How do I break up with an overly attached boyfriend of two years?

[Anonymous]

I love him, but I don't want to be with him forever. He is annoying, always wants to be with me 24/7. He gets mad when I go on Tumblr or text other people - Heaven forbid I text another guy. He says he doesn't care if I do, but if I do then he gets all offended and mad. He's too lovey for me. He really likes romance. I don't. He wants to have sex like every single day. I don't. He cries if I say anything about how I don't want to talk about having kids, let's just take this day by day. He for real cries. And it's so embarrassing. I thought girls cried a lot, but he is like such a cry baby and has panic attacks if I say anything like that. He tells me that if I ever left that it would disable him because he wouldn't know what to do. I hate that. It's so creepy to me. I loved him a ton before, but he's just getting weirder and weirder. He's never mean, but he's just too like... lovey and attached to me that it's weird. How do I break up with him without hurting him more than I have to?

[Konnour]

He probably have some issues inside he have to work for, not letting you even to text to your girlfriends is beyond controlling and it's never normal when a man cries. Never.. unless he got broken ribs or something.

Consider that you got bored. You like sweet things, that's why you were with him for 2 years anyway, but too much of a sweet thing is too much, so much sweet it can make you vomit, you know what I'm sayin?

Tell this to him what I said now and before breaking-up, give him an ultimatum to change his behavior and only if he fails to improve, only then break-up to end this.

Because after then there is no way back, so do it only when there really is no hope anymore.

[Anonymous]

He sounds exactly like my ex. Here's what I did. I drove to his house to break up with him in person. Do not break up with him over a text or phone call, that is just disrespectful. Tell him that you are both looking for different things in the relationship and want things to end on good terms. Let him know you enjoyed the good times of the relationship but it is time to move on from that. And Finally tell him he is going to find a girl that was everything you couldn't be for him.

Other than that, if he starts to cry don't back out halfway through, follow through with breaking up with him or you will regret it (trust me). I hope this helps and good luck letting him down easy.

[toulouse]

Stop leading him on. s soon as you know you want to leave-he should know. its really disrespectful to be thinking this way of him, while he thinks you love him. Its very babyish. Someone else may value his intense emotions. if you don't appreciate it. let him go.

[Anonymous]

You break up with him firmly and clearly.