Me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year and recently his ex girlfriend, who is a bit on the crazy side, has been texting him a lot and if he doesn't respond ( he never does from that he tell me) she calls him alot. I'm starting to get annoyed, I told him to block her number since he says he doesn't talk to her, that was a while ago and she is texting him more and more. She tells him to come over and calls him babe. I'm not sure what to think or do. Oh if it helps their relationship was terrible they fought all the time and she did drugs and got drunk all the time.
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it should be concerning to you not why he doesn't block her, but why he doesn't just tell her to back off.
I think blocking numbers is useless. She will find another way to contact him if she is really that "crazy". I think you should ask him why he doesn't lay down the law with her. If he isn't willing to lay down the law then you should question how over her he is and how much he really cares about you and his current relationship.
Tell him that all her contacting makes you uncomfortable (that is a fair thing to say). Tell him that you would really appreciate it if he addressed the issue with her and told her that she needs to stop texting and calling since he is in a happy relationship. If he says he doesn't want to do that, then you say playfully so we'll just live forever as a trio. You and I together and her texting and calling every day. If he doesn't really how absurd the situation is then he's simply not over the ex and in a indirect was is disrespecting your relationship.
He has to take some step to remove her from his life (at least in the capacity that she is in it now).0