We have been dating for 8 months. We have never had a single fight in the whole time we have been dating. I have met his two best friends, he met mine, & I met his brother who really liked me a lot and encouraged my boyfriend to introduce me to his parents which he did. Sept his job became very busy & understaffed he went from working M-F to working 7 days a week. If there was any kind of issue it was that I was asking him to spend more time with me and he just ensuring me that once the holiday season was over (he works for FedEx) that things would calm down & he would have more time with me. We still talked everyday via text, phone or snapchat & we did talk on the phone it would like 1-2 hrs. His brother & friends told me that my boyfriend would talk about me all the time & they could see how happy he was. My boyfriend even told me that he really cared about me, loved me, that I made him happy, it felt natural and comfortable being with me, how I made him want to be a better man, & how sweet, kind, caring and understanding I was and that I was being supportive and patient. Last time I saw him was the end of Dec when he told me he was stressed out, burnt out, overworked, overwhelmed, fighting w/ his parents and that he felt awful cuz I was getting hurt cuz the time he did have to himself he wanted to be alone & I was being punished & it wasn't my fault. My mental health has been getting really bad & I had a bad doc's appt on 01/27 about my cancer might be back. I went crazy & blew up his phone to talk to him that was Friday, he told me he couldn't talk at the moment so I left him alone & then that Sunday I notice he removed me as friend from Snap & when I called him cuz I clearly freaked out the 3rd time I called he blocked me. Did I mess up my relationship? Did I do something wrong? Is it too late for us?
Sounds like he couldn't handle the decency of being in a relationship.
And no there's nothing that you could have done differently. He's just not mature enough. He'll come crawling back when his work load is different but you shouldn't take him back, because any person that views a relationship as the source of stress instead of the means to alleviating stress isn't emotionally available
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Umm. Wow. Dating for 8 months and blocks and ghosts you? I’m absolutely shocked by that.
To answer your questions. Hmm. I don’t really see a path forward. I think his actions are incredibly immature and childish. You deserve better. You did not do anything wrong it sounds like. It’s all on him.
I’m so sorry that’s happening to you. You’ll find someone better.
You told him your cancer might be back and he asked you to leave him alone then blocked your number?
I get things are rough out there in the dating world, but is this jack hole really worth worrying about?
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He did not want to face you.
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Probably a temper tantrum
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