My boyfriend's ex contacted me saying they had sex!

[Anonymous]

what should I do? I asked him and he said no they didn't. He told me she started trouble and started harassing this girl he was seeing b4 me. Should I believe her? or is she making it up so we can break up?

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my boyfriends ex girlfriend contacted me saying they had sex.. while him and I are together***

[thelittlethings]

I would say trust your man, she just wants to cause trouble. My ex's ex did this to us too. But every day or time she said they were together we had been together so I knew she was lying. I would get pist though because we'd be hanging out at night and he would get a message from her saying something like, "Hey babe, sorry I didn't text you back earlier, work was busy. I am doing good though, how are you? I miss you too." I would see these and flip out and he would swear that he didn't send her anything but I didn't believe him. Well one weekend we were camping and he didn't have service. When we got back to town he turned his phone on and had five of those messages from her so I knew he couldn't have sent her anything.

Trust your man until he gives you a reason not to.

[Deeplove55]

Now why would she call and tell you that unless she wanted to break yall up? You said it right last. For a female to do that, she is crazy and trying to ruin his life. Don't listen to her because she's lying and besides you should trust your bf. he did not cheat on you

[Popcorn33]

welll maybe she is maken it up but why should it matter? if they had sex they had sex.. its kinda normal at ur age...

[Asker]

No while are together

[jaystone]

I would say trust your boyfriend unless he has a past with cheating. I am going thru this same thing because my ex told my girlfriend not only did I cheat on her with her but I also slept with her mom, my girlfriends cousin, and that I'm gay ha. Some of you girls can get a little crazy like that (no ofense). But yea trust your boyfriend because it may be the same situation,