My ex boyfriend made out with someone in front of me?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend boyfriend (now ex) made out with someone in front of me... I blocked him on everything. Haven't spoken to him. He won't stop calling from other phone numbers and emails and everything he can think of? Does he think I'll forgive him or something?

[Hellothere543212]

Firstly of all, I’m so sorry! That is just awful. Being cheated on is painful enough, especially when they have such a disregard to do it right in front of you.

This ex sounds like a terrible terrible person. Although it probably doesn’t feel like it, he has done you a favour. You have really dodged a bullet!

As someone who repeatedly forgave a cheater for many years, I personally believe that they’re never going to have that loyalty towards you that you deserve. They may suppress their urges by avoiding other women or following you around like a lost puppy. But the fact they have to suppress the urge, means that the desire is always there. Who would want someone who would desire someone else! You deserve better, so you definitely have dodged a bullet.

In terms of doing that right in front of you, or even in a public capacity, that shows a completely disrespect for you and lack of regard for your feelings. You don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t respect you enough to keep their tongue in their mouth! Or doesn’t even care how that would hurt you.

I really am sorry. My advice as someone who’s been there, try not to be bitter. Channel all that anger and pain into bettering yourself. Make him see how great you’re really are. That’s the best revenge possible.

[HollyK21]

Pretty sure I saw this the other day. Just keep him blocked. Like I said before he was acting within his right since he’s single but that doesn’t make it less hurtful. You’re better off without that guy.

[funtime_01]

Think you already asked this question before, but now you know why he's your ex in the first place. He's toxic as heck. You need to move on and meet another guy who won't treat you like a place holder to come at his beck and call. Block him on everything and carry on with your life. Please take this advice, it will save you a lot of heartache.

[the_man57]

Fucking talk to him and call him out on it. Not fair for you to just block him. Tell him explicitly that that wasn't okay and you're done with him