Why did he tell his guy friends we had sex?

[brendaqueen]

Why did he telling he's guy friends we had sex.

[Kkaos]

To brag, guys have a natural tendency to do that when they're with their friends. My friends and I regularly talk about girls and sex so it's only natural that we'd share experiences with girls. However I've developed enough respect to not do that anymore, I just laugh and deflect their questions away if they ask me. What I do with a girl is between me and her, if she wants me to tell other people, she can let me know, otherwise I'm not telling anyone. Your guy should be a decent man and do the same.

[brendaqueen]

That's very true indeed for sure Thank you that makes since. True that

[dannymexico]

Because guys tell other men some dirty shit. If I really like her though, they won't hear shit about her and I doing anything other than "hanging out". I don't want my friends to meet her and think she's some slut. If I don't respect her, all that shits coming out.

[brendaqueen]

Okay what about if I meet all of he's friends and we hang out many of times and have sex if course but tells he's friends that he had sex with Me. Do think he cares?

[dannymexico]

Hun I don't know. All men are different. Some do it to show off that they got laid because it's rare for them to have sex. Others do it just to impress, either way. The fact that he can't keep what y'all do intimately a secret is not a good thing at all. Best thing you can do is tell him you don't appreciate him talking like that and that if he does it again your going to tell all your friends and his how small his dick is. That will shut him up.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Because he scored. Plus, don't act like you've never done this - I think we all have. :P

[brendaqueen]

That's true

[RJGraveyTrain]

Besides he was likely bragging 😜

[brendaqueen]

Yes I think he has been lol. Is that good though?

[tyber1]

It could go either way tbh

[godfatherfan]

Guys will tell our friends if we had sex. If he really cares about you, he won't get into specifics. I assume women tell thier friends they had sex with a guy so I don't really understand why that is an issue.
If we don't care about the woman, we tell them all the details of what she did, and what we did to her.
but if we like her, we just let them know because it means something.

[brendaqueen]

That's true but I think he just told them we had sex but don't go into detail so does he care? ?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

don't girls do the same shit? You shouldn't be upset. It would actually be a bad sign if he never said anything because that would most likely mean he's embarrassed by you or something. uys always talk about girls they have sex with. Especially when they are really happy with the sex.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

Showing off. It's still considered an achievement when a guy has sex, and since most guys are naturally competitive, they want to show off their accomplishment.
Honestly, as someone who has had sex with a guy, it's kind of endearing and comforting: you made someone a more confident, happy person just by enjoying yourself with them.

[brendaqueen]

Alright Thank you makes since Thank you

[tdneves]

because people do it. it is normal. when women talk it is seen as healty talk. but when man do it is because he is a jerk and so on. it is the exact same thing.

[brendaqueen]

Alright Thank you makes since

[kdeleon]

he's a guy we do that to show off and celebrate our achievement of hooking up with females it's not to make you feel bad or look bad but for him to look good and so him and all his guy friends will celebrate it

[brendaqueen]

Alright Thank you so much

[kdeleon]

np anytime

[JayCasper777]

because he wants respect from them. plus, he's hoping, if they all think you had sex. then you might think "well everyone already thinks I did it I may as well fuck the guy" lol

[jeffersont]

Because he's a jerk and it didn't mean squat to him.

[tkparsons]

he just wanted his friend to think he is a bad was.

[brendaqueen]

Probably so thank you

[Anonymous]

To show off and try to be smart and clearly made a big mistake as no one needs to know about your sex life when it comes to friends

[brendaqueen]

Yeah good point for sure. And yes very true indeed.

[Opinion Owner]

What you do in sex is not to be shared like daily news and he has made himself look a fool and also shows no responsibility as a partner

[RimeIce]

Did you two have sex?

[brendaqueen]

Yeah

[Anonymous]

he obviously thinks you are just a fuck toy. Come on... silly gal... THINK

[brendaqueen]

Probably I don't know thanks tho

[Opinion Owner]

welcome :)

[anaspie]

Most likely because he wanted to look cool.

[naomi123]

To brag & I guess just show off

[unpopular14]

Show off!

[brendaqueen]

Alright Thank you

[cootjuh]

to be one of the guys that had sex

[brendaqueen]

Good point

[cootjuh]

U welcome

[Kaylyne]

Well did you?

[SpoonieKitty]

He's feeding his ego. A gentleman doesn't brag. If it bothers you at this point then you should reconsider the relationship because you have no idea what else he will tell them later on.

[brendaqueen]

Kaylyne huh? and spooniekitty Thank you.

[Kaylyne]

@brendaqueen OK, let me put it another way and more direct this time, did you actually have sex with the guy?

[brendaqueen]

Well yes

[Kaylyne]

@brendaqueen Then really you should know that not only can guys not keep it in their pants, they also can't stop boasting about it either.

[brendaqueen]

That's very true to

[Kaylyne]

@brendaqueen Well I sincerely hope you've learnt your lesson! lol

[Anonymous]

He's an immature jerk that's why

[samy121]

to feel cool

[brendaqueen]

That's good point

[Anonymous]

because he was a jerk and wanted to brag

[Seppelson]

to show off

[brendaqueen]

True

[Anonymous]

Stupid ego

[brendaqueen]

Yeah

[jeet57]

cuz he is cheap