just out of curiosity? how come you don't wear loafers, boat shoes or even canvas shoes such as Vans? They actually have thoes in men sizes so that they will fit more comfortably on a mans foot. Are you choosing to wear womens because of the bright colors/flowers/bows becasue loafers and boat shoes and Vans would make more sinse if you are looking for something more comfortable. women shoes are made to fit womens feet that is probably why you are getting the blisters. I never have to break in any shoes because I get the size that fits.
I feel like if you are just wearing the womens shoes because of the fact that you just like womens shoes and it really has nothing to do with comfortability then what you have is a fetish and unfortunately the only advice to give to you about your womens shoe fetish is to embrace it proudly but don't lie to people and say you are doing it for the comfortibilty when you are clearly getting blisters because that reasoning makes you come off as foolish as opposed to saying "I just like womens sheos and I don't give a f*** waht you think".
You could try researching to see if they make a brand of ballet flats for men. I have herad of the brand Kinky Boots which is a brand of sexy high heel shooes and boots made for men, specifically for men who do drag shows, so who knows maybe they make ballat flatts too.
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You're a dude . . . you shouldn't be wearing ballet flats . . . BUT you break them in by wearing them, bend the sole back and forth to loosen it up, put something in them that stresses the sides so they stretch . . or get rid of them because you're a dude, and dudes don't wear ballet flats . . .
I've seen your questions before regarding ballet flats so I'm going to hold my judgement and just answer the question: the only way to break in ballet flats is by wearing them. They're not necessarily the wrong fit, they just need to soften to your foot.
Man, you should really read the reviews next time, I'm a guy too and my favorite flats from payless is American eagle, very true to size. Anyhow, yes try wearing them a lot but with a pair of socks, silk, cotten your choices just make sure they fit snuggier than usual, you'll break them in quicker that way and the heat helps.
I am a guy and I also wear flats. Payless shoes are cheap lol you got blister in one feet cause sometimes one feet is larger than the other. Buy a a pair of rubber heel inserts at Payless and place in the left shoe. Wear your flats with socks at home for 3 or 4 days that will help to break them in. Then enjoy them barefeet
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I know it excites you to wear women's shoes, and that's fine.
Ballet flats should not require much breaking in.
Something is wrong with the fit.
Maybe you should ante up and buy some better flats.I'm laughing so hard that my titties are bouncing like basketballs!
you just gotta wear them, go on a walk in the park lol that should do itThe only way would be to wear them constantly, no pain no gain.
They are probably too tight, if you're a guy you're feet are probably wider than a woman's who those shoes were designed for.
It must be that your left foot isn't used to them yet.
payless ! wow it's been a long time since I've heard that name. get those wooden sticks made for stretching shoes.
You can break those flats and simultaneously watch Brokeback Mountain on your iPhone..
This is the weirdest fetish I've ever seen.
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