Most Helpful Girl
just out of curiosity? how come you don't wear loafers, boat shoes or even canvas shoes such as Vans? They actually have thoes in men sizes so that they will fit more comfortably on a mans foot. Are you choosing to wear womens because of the bright colors/flowers/bows becasue loafers and boat shoes and Vans would make more sinse if you are looking for something more comfortable. women shoes are made to fit womens feet that is probably why you are getting the blisters. I never have to break in any shoes because I get the size that fits.
I feel like if you are just wearing the womens shoes because of the fact that you just like womens shoes and it really has nothing to do with comfortability then what you have is a fetish and unfortunately the only advice to give to you about your womens shoe fetish is to embrace it proudly but don't lie to people and say you are doing it for the comfortibilty when you are clearly getting blisters because that reasoning makes you come off as foolish as opposed to saying "I just like womens sheos and I don't give a f*** waht you think".
You could try researching to see if they make a brand of ballet flats for men. I have herad of the brand Kinky Boots which is a brand of sexy high heel shooes and boots made for men, specifically for men who do drag shows, so who knows maybe they make ballat flatts too.