Polls: Break Up & Divorce

What is up with MEN doing this? All of the stories I’ve heard of people doing this are men. And it’s always when they KNOW they are in the wrong for cheating or whatever.

Okay, let's have some fun. Your ex unfortunately died due to whatever, and the last thing they said was "We will meet again, (your name)." Sooo you move on but when you think you're alone but random people say things that your ex only knew. But the thing it is, it happens everytime "your ex" touches someone... and now that person is your ex. So what's the goal of this? Bitter revenge because they're bitter. Everyday you wake up, they manage to find you and try to mess up your life due to their bitterness.

Got any ideas to make this mofo just pass on and fk off?

He randomly broke up with me out of no where but begged to keep sleeping together.

I only found out recently that he has this friendship. When we split he kept saying I’ll eventually sleep with someone else. I think I could get anyone I want. He said not better than you but the same

Then after a month of doing that he came back asking for a relationship again. A week later said nah I just wanna keep sleeping together.

Was he telling the truth he just didn’t like this relationship or was it for that friendship?

Say they’ve decided to message you (you’re still hurting and not really over them) would you tell them how much they’ve hurt you in the past and how it makes you feel or not?

Dated 3 years.

Broke up due to long distance.

We broke up five months ago due to long distance. Went no contact for two months. Now we’ve talked every day for the last three months and finally got together last night with friends.

We were together 2 years. During that time, We had great sexual chemistry but he never ate me out, nor tried. So I was taken back when he did last night. He seems to have changed but I’m just more confused than ever.

This guy!!! He’s moved on, married. Yet he still emails me. Claiming that I’m called him blocked. (Im not). I don’t have time for his mundane bs. Every time I answer; it’s a fight and he’s ignorant. Im a psychology major so I know what I’m doing. I try ignoring him, yet I get emails like this. I don't know what to do anymore. I’ve tried getting restraining orders, but we are in different states. Please any suggestions

If your SO breaks up with you, would you trust them again to give them a second chance or feel that they don't really love you?

My relationship lasted 4.5 years, and it ended 2 weeks ago. We are doing the no-contact rule, so I can't discuss anything with him now. But, he decided to end it because he "felt like the bad guy," communication/compatibility issues, and my close-minded family (even though that was a minor issue out of everything). He said that he wanted to work on himself to understand his emotions/feelings better, make himself a better person, needed time/space, and he couldn't do it while we were together still. He also said he couldn't guarantee that he would return right now since he is unsure what he wants and has started therapy to figure that out. He discussed moving to another state since most of his family lives there, but he hadn't told me when he planned to leave. He even broke up with me over the phone and not in person. I asked to see him at least one more time in person to discuss it at least (we live 3 hours away from each other), and he said no.

I'm unsure how to feel about all of this besides a massive unfairness since I deserve the "best" version of him when he is done with therapy, and I didn't want to end it. I have researched his likelihood of returning online, and it seemed up in the air. The breakup wasn't the worst, and I know he still loves/cares about me to a certain degree since we did last this long. I feel like I am not getting all of the information about how he feels since he mentioned how he was "done/tired" of the relationship, but his plan after a month of no contact was to be "friends" (which could easily change now) initially with the breakup. What do you think? Do you think there's a chance of him returning after therapy? I know not to bank on it, but I wanted to see if other people were in a similar situation and what happened. His mom still supports me and is helping me process this the best she can. It feels weird because it felt rushed, and he seems indifferent about it all now. Like he even bought an engagement ring for me and everything.

I want to ask so I have context regarding his intent and can better determine whether to accept or decline his request.