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I have three exes, all of them would be a yes. We all ended in good terms, although we aren't good friends or anything.
Thanks for mho
Interesting anon. Did you dump them or vice versa?
I did and i mean, it was a hard breakup (especially the first and last ex) but there is no hate yk.
Very sweet and caring of you.
Well that is different your call. But I’ve had exes who broke with me who insanely thought they could get favors out of me after. Ah nah. No way. Never.
LOL I would let him stay in a cardboard box outside across the street from my house
But they wanna come in because they are hungry and tired
@MyOwnMan2 why did you start drama?
You damn right with you You're damn right cuz you're playing the victim card all too well He's not the only one that sees through your facade.
@Cuminginside LOL you don’t know me or my relationship where my ex physically assaulted me within that relationship. Take your 19 year old ass off my comment
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u I did, and it was a monumental, gargantuan mistake of epic proportions! Lesson learned!
Don't do it!
Find Him a Room By Me. lolxxoo
Nah, that would be a cockblock
That would depend on the ex.
90% of the time hell no. But it depends on:
If this is your ex then she got kicked out of her place for a reason. She either couldn’t pay rent and/or was too difficult to cohabit with. There are some scenarios were the landlord can be a legit dbag despite your best efforts. But usually people get kicked out for legit reasons.
Tell her to move back with her parents. Grown daughters are usually treated nicer then grown sons anyway when it comes to family.
Well I live w my fiance so it probably wouldn't be practical. But other than that, I am thinking "no" but it depends how desperate the situation is, I was annoyed w my most recent ex when we broke up but I think he is a good person and I wouldn't want anything really bad to happen to him. But letting an ex live with me is a big request even if I wasn't engaged, I might try to help him find a place or find a roommate moreso than let him move in w me.
I have some other exes who the answer would be HELL NO I might call the police.
Depends on how you define "ex."
Last romantic interest that got screwed over by fate before we could seal the deal?
I'd definitely let her come back! My folks might feel differently, but I'd treat that gal almost like she were my wife.
The crush that fazzled out before that? If she were truly desperate. But I'd have trust issues due to her shady family.
The Chinese woman from years ago? I have no idea how she'd even find my place, since she's in China. But if the world went even further to Hell, and all she had left was herself and her daughter, and her new husband was out of the picture permanently somehow, I'd be tripping over myself to get her back!
There are plenty of others that I'd tell to hit the road, however.
I generally have a good relationship with my exes, so yes.
Especially because I'm currently single.
If I had a girlfriend I'd definitely ask her first however.
I'd say something like, can you let me think about it a little bit and call me again in x amount of time?
Then I'd talk with her and let her have the final say.
Another variable here is that I'm poly and absolutely can love multiple people at the same time.
Honestly, I'd be more concerned about her boyfriend then about her...
I'd probably let him stay too, but that could get awkward fast...
Yes. And I would draft a lease with some crazy ass conditions and enforce every point, big or small. For example, I would make rent $1800 a month, but she could get rent reduced each month to $900 if she does ALL the chores in the house, make my food and hand-write "I am sorry for being a cheating sack of shit while you were deployed" 100,000 times each month. And I would never allow her to have ANY guests in the house. ALL those conditions would have to be met perfectly within each month for the reduced rent. And the rent would be due on the 1st, with a late fee added on the 2nd. She would be free to leave whenever she wanted. I would not be mean enough to evict her unless something severe forced me to do so.
No. (starts flopping around on the floor) No no no no no no no (starts beatboxing).
She was too much of a "red flag" kind of mess. Jealousy off the charts, even with friends. Constantly accusing me of various things. Nope.
When I moved her, we had to move her in (and out) of three different places in a period of about a month (a friend of mine handled the fourth time). Only one made some sense as to it not being her fault. The others were on her. She probably lived about five different places in two or three months.
No. I don't need to be unalived by Miss Crazypants, either.
Luckily, when there was a perceived fight, she would get rid of all my contact information... so I don't think she was smart enough to remember where I lived for stalking purposes, though she was batty enough to do it.
Hahaha good one! Next to the fact I would never disrespect my current relationship by doing something like that, I would send her this even if Ihappen to be single:
https://www.youtube.com/embed/-aUMOgjX-nw
Depends on how our breakup was and if I hate her guts. If not then maybe we can talk and feel better about being on different paths, maybe we can be friends and I can get to know some of her friends or we could use eachothers as proxies to find our next SO's.
Depends on how we ended it and what they need specifically. If it was mutual/didn't end too badly then there's a decent chance of yes. If they're coming to me, their ex, then they must be kinda desperate. If nothing else then I might try to find them somewhere else to stay, even if it's not with me.
(But like, if the person had been abusive, dangerous, etc then no. Not going there.)
I was actually in this position and my ex let me crash at his place for a week. He even had a new girl that he was falling in love with at the time. We cuddled and kissed but I could tell he wasn’t in love with me anymore. Some other girl had him all newly excited.
I still have a couple as business partners and the rest are still in my contacts and messages.
Being as "ex" does not mean violent or terrible breakups. People do and can want different things. It's about letting go on good terms for both, instead of being an ass.
Nope, I tried that shit before
And the bitch did was cause fights, start drama and stay high on prescription meds
Plus never gave me money to help cover the cost of living.
I had to get a court order to get her evicted from my place of residence.
Because Wisconsin laws are fucked up
My most recent ex, who recently tried to maim me emotionally by bragging about getting married in a few weeks after stringing me along for a year, had to be screened by my doorman and told that the authorities will be called because he won't stop calling and showing up to my house. Yeah, I wish he would kick rocks and take care of his fiancée because she is the one that wants him.
There is a situation in this regard, I do not host at my home, but I would like to support in another way by giving money or directing to a hotel or thanks to acquaintances. But I don't talk big either, it wouldn't be appropriate if there was someone in my life anyway.
Depends on what kind of breakup we had, if it was something that hurt me then no they can go to their parents house to go there, if we ended up on peaceful way by agreeing that things don't work between us then sure I'd consider helping
Depends on why they’re an ex. If they were abusive or toxic or the relationship was toxic, then no. If the break up was mutual and there’s no hard feelings and the relationship was healthy then yes.
I'm like the guy who played the lottery and won big & you're asking me is it worth putting $1k of your cash on lottery tickets. You put me in a tough spot... cause I don't like to give bad advice.
I would not have with my prior wife, because of the circumstances she left under. She moved in with another guy.
Other than that, yes, I would as long as she was not boning some other guy in my house.
It would depend do I have a partner at that time? Was the breakup bad, was she just a terrible person, etc.
In most cases yes I would let any of them stay except one stay if they reached out and asked.
If it had ended okey , no dishonesty , theft , stuff like that sure , I've done this previously , things happen , I would not have a problem with that.
haven't dated in 13-years but if my last ex had needed a place to stay for a bit, yes i would've let them stay. always good to help a person out when you can
u Aslong as my partner was fine with it, yes. My last ex and I broke up on good terms, all things aside. We still keep in contact here & there.
Assuming that I'm not yet involved with someone else again...
I'll perhaps let her take shelter.
When 'services in return' are provided 😁
why anyone would still have contact with their ex is beyond me. should be blocked and deleted number at that point.
Nope. But they'll never have to worry about their living situation ever again. ⚰
What, why would you shoot them?
Ya sure, we broke on good terms, if any of my friends need a place I be glad to offer what I can
Hmm I don't know
I like helping people, but this would feel really awkward
depends on how we ended the relationship, if they were toxic/abusive then no , if we ended on good terms then yes ,
Fuck no. I also make decent money so if I genuinely cared about her maybe I'd throw her money.
i heard about this from a common friend. so i sent him to offer her. she called to decline.
Loool no. I've hit hard places but have survived. They'll be fine
Would depend on why he’s my ex. Cheated? Then no. Naturally drifted apart etc than ok
No. My fiancé and kids wouldn't want them around. And things didn't end well, and we've not talked since.
Hell to the fuck no. After the most recent stunt you pulled. You can go fuck yourself.
You deserve it all. Karma is a bitch
Absolutely, my most recent ex is still a friend and is in a relationship that has signs of potentially turning abusive. I would give them a place to stay in a heartbeat to help keep them safe
I wouldn't I would be too afraid he would steal my stuff
Most likely but she’d have to be super bad for me to say no thank you. I’m talking animal abuse - worse kind of stuff.
Not a damn chance. I don't hate myself nor am I criminally insane. A random smash and go? Sure why not.
Go live with the guy you cheated on me with
No not giving up freedom space or privacy for a man
I don't have an ex as I am in my first relationship but if my current boyfriend became my ex then sure I would let him crash for a bit.
Nope. The AH can rot in hell for abandoning me while I was pregnant and for also abandoning his own child.
Maybe but they would have to be pretty desperate to ask and I would have to be single at the time
It depends on who she was cheating on me with and how soon she got kicked out by the guy she left me for.
No way. If we ended on bad things, then I keep my distance and remain unavailable
Nope. I'd tell her damn that's tough, well good luck with that.
After she cheated on me, hell no. Good riddance. You and your two kids go find a homeless shelter
If she gets kicked out of her current living space it would mean she is getting kicked out by the guy who she was cheating with when we were together, so no.
I would do it for the sex part lol. But soon they’re hitting the road … 💅
@msc545
Awwwww, 🍼
Well if it isn’t the butthurt 36yo who took offense to EVEYTHING I have said. BOO BOO GAA GAA 🍼🍼
Only if she promises to be your sex slave during that time.
Sure. Am a person who doesn't believe in inhospitality.
depends on how we split up so yes maybe and no
No I certainly would not. An ex is an x for a reason
No. I live in California and I'm not giving anyone residency rights to my house.
Yeah, she's not that bad and I'm not heartless.
She left for someone better. He was not, so she must find another sucker
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