Yeah, sure. Stuff happens. 😇
No way, hit the road. 🤣
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I have three exes, all of them would be a yes. We all ended in good terms, although we aren't good friends or anything.
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Interesting anon. Did you dump them or vice versa?
I did and i mean, it was a hard breakup (especially the first and last ex) but there is no hate yk.
Very sweet and caring of you.
Well that is different your call. But I’ve had exes who broke with me who insanely thought they could get favors out of me after. Ah nah. No way. Never.
LOL I would let him stay in a cardboard box outside across the street from my house
But they wanna come in because they are hungry and tired
@MyOwnMan2 why did you start drama?
You damn right with you You're damn right cuz you're playing the victim card all too well He's not the only one that sees through your facade.
@Cuminginside LOL you don’t know me or my relationship where my ex physically assaulted me within that relationship. Take your 19 year old ass off my comment
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I did, and it was a monumental, gargantuan mistake of epic proportions! Lesson learned!
Don't do it!
Find Him a Room By Me. lolxxoo
Nah, that would be a cockblock
That would depend on the ex.
90% of the time hell no. But it depends on:
If this is your ex then she got kicked out of her place for a reason. She either couldn’t pay rent and/or was too difficult to cohabit with. There are some scenarios were the landlord can be a legit dbag despite your best efforts. But usually people get kicked out for legit reasons.
Tell her to move back with her parents. Grown daughters are usually treated nicer then grown sons anyway when it comes to family.
Well I live w my fiance so it probably wouldn't be practical. But other than that, I am thinking "no" but it depends how desperate the situation is, I was annoyed w my most recent ex when we broke up but I think he is a good person and I wouldn't want anything really bad to happen to him. But letting an ex live with me is a big request even if I wasn't engaged, I might try to help him find a place or find a roommate moreso than let him move in w me.
I have some other exes who the answer would be HELL NO I might call the police.
Depends on how you define "ex."
Last romantic interest that got screwed over by fate before we could seal the deal?
I'd definitely let her come back! My folks might feel differently, but I'd treat that gal almost like she were my wife.
The crush that fazzled out before that? If she were truly desperate. But I'd have trust issues due to her shady family.
The Chinese woman from years ago? I have no idea how she'd even find my place, since she's in China. But if the world went even further to Hell, and all she had left was herself and her daughter, and her new husband was out of the picture permanently somehow, I'd be tripping over myself to get her back!
There are plenty of others that I'd tell to hit the road, however.
I generally have a good relationship with my exes, so yes.
Especially because I'm currently single.
If I had a girlfriend I'd definitely ask her first however.
I'd say something like, can you let me think about it a little bit and call me again in x amount of time?
Then I'd talk with her and let her have the final say.
Another variable here is that I'm poly and absolutely can love multiple people at the same time.
Honestly, I'd be more concerned about her boyfriend then about her...
I'd probably let him stay too, but that could get awkward fast...
Yes. And I would draft a lease with some crazy ass conditions and enforce every point, big or small. For example, I would make rent $1800 a month, but she could get rent reduced each month to $900 if she does ALL the chores in the house, make my food and hand-write "I am sorry for being a cheating sack of shit while you were deployed" 100,000 times each month. And I would never allow her to have ANY guests in the house. ALL those conditions would have to be met perfectly within each month for the reduced rent. And the rent would be due on the 1st, with a late fee added on the 2nd. She would be free to leave whenever she wanted. I would not be mean enough to evict her unless something severe forced me to do so.
No. (starts flopping around on the floor) No no no no no no no (starts beatboxing).
She was too much of a "red flag" kind of mess. Jealousy off the charts, even with friends. Constantly accusing me of various things. Nope.
When I moved her, we had to move her in (and out) of three different places in a period of about a month (a friend of mine handled the fourth time). Only one made some sense as to it not being her fault. The others were on her. She probably lived about five different places in two or three months.
No. I don't need to be unalived by Miss Crazypants, either.
Luckily, when there was a perceived fight, she would get rid of all my contact information... so I don't think she was smart enough to remember where I lived for stalking purposes, though she was batty enough to do it.
Hahaha good one! Next to the fact I would never disrespect my current relationship by doing something like that, I would send her this even if Ihappen to be single:
https://www.youtube.com/embed/-aUMOgjX-nwDepends on how our breakup was and if I hate her guts. If not then maybe we can talk and feel better about being on different paths, maybe we can be friends and I can get to know some of her friends or we could use eachothers as proxies to find our next SO's.
Depends on how we ended it and what they need specifically. If it was mutual/didn't end too badly then there's a decent chance of yes. If they're coming to me, their ex, then they must be kinda desperate. If nothing else then I might try to find them somewhere else to stay, even if it's not with me.
(But like, if the person had been abusive, dangerous, etc then no. Not going there.)
I was actually in this position and my ex let me crash at his place for a week. He even had a new girl that he was falling in love with at the time. We cuddled and kissed but I could tell he wasn’t in love with me anymore. Some other girl had him all newly excited.
I still have a couple as business partners and the rest are still in my contacts and messages.
Being as "ex" does not mean violent or terrible breakups. People do and can want different things. It's about letting go on good terms for both, instead of being an ass.
Nope, I tried that shit before
And the bitch did was cause fights, start drama and stay high on prescription meds
Plus never gave me money to help cover the cost of living.
I had to get a court order to get her evicted from my place of residence.
Because Wisconsin laws are fucked up
My most recent ex, who recently tried to maim me emotionally by bragging about getting married in a few weeks after stringing me along for a year, had to be screened by my doorman and told that the authorities will be called because he won't stop calling and showing up to my house. Yeah, I wish he would kick rocks and take care of his fiancée because she is the one that wants him.
There is a situation in this regard, I do not host at my home, but I would like to support in another way by giving money or directing to a hotel or thanks to acquaintances. But I don't talk big either, it wouldn't be appropriate if there was someone in my life anyway.
Depends on what kind of breakup we had, if it was something that hurt me then no they can go to their parents house to go there, if we ended up on peaceful way by agreeing that things don't work between us then sure I'd consider helping
Depends on why they’re an ex. If they were abusive or toxic or the relationship was toxic, then no. If the break up was mutual and there’s no hard feelings and the relationship was healthy then yes.
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