I want to ask so I have context regarding his intent and can better determine whether to accept or decline his request.
You're way overthinking this. Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay.
He's an ex for a reason. Do you want to be associated or connected with him? That's the only question to ask yourself and you answer. That's it.
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Follow what you want, but be prepared to block and move on.
A year is a long time, and if you feel secure in your ability to turn him away if you feel the need to, go for it.
You can always block him if he proves incapable of respecting you.
Never ask "why" because you get very rarely honest answer.
He provokes a reaction from your side to check out if you're still interested, if you reply then you're if you don't reply, you're over him
It doesn't sound like you are comfortable accepting the request, why would you do it? Either way, i wouldn't message him (i don't know how you two get along though)
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No, Either Accept him or Not. xxoo
I chose "send the message", yes, but don't do it if you are already in another relationship. Delete+Block. Especially no "pretty pics" for him to look at.
Then again, if you have kids together, then inform of this to your current spouse (if you have a new current one) and based on the opinion together, you proceed with yes/no.
If you’re interested in him, message him or accept or whatever. If you’re not interested and you’ve decided you’ve moved on, don’t do anything. Don’t waste your time.
a message isn't going to do anything at the end of the day. if you want to add him, then add him. if you don't want him on your instagram, then ignore.
Decline. Or you wanna go over your heartbreak one more time with him?
It is just Instagram. Either way, it is not important.
Don't message. Just accept his request and don't follow back.
If you dont expect to get back together i dont see why not. You dont have to follow back. A year after is not a big deal at all.
If I were you, I wouldn't message him or accept his request.
Don't
I personally just accept it and leave it down to him what he does next. (My opinion is based on you being open to getting back together)
Decline it and block him. End of story
Only message him if you want him back.
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Accept it
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