I want to ask so I have context regarding his intent and can better determine whether to accept or decline his request.
You're way overthinking this. Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay.
He's an ex for a reason. Do you want to be associated or connected with him? That's the only question to ask yourself and you answer. That's it.00 Reply
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- 1 y
Follow what you want, but be prepared to block and move on.
A year is a long time, and if you feel secure in your ability to turn him away if you feel the need to, go for it.
You can always block him if he proves incapable of respecting you.00 Reply
Never ask "why" because you get very rarely honest answer.
He provokes a reaction from your side to check out if you're still interested, if you reply then you're if you don't reply, you're over him10 Reply
- 1 y
It doesn't sound like you are comfortable accepting the request, why would you do it? Either way, i wouldn't message him (i don't know how you two get along though)
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2K opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic. No, Either Accept him or Not. xxoo
00 ReplyI chose "send the message", yes, but don't do it if you are already in another relationship. Delete+Block. Especially no "pretty pics" for him to look at.
Then again, if you have kids together, then inform of this to your current spouse (if you have a new current one) and based on the opinion together, you proceed with yes/no.
00 Reply- 1 y
If you’re interested in him, message him or accept or whatever. If you’re not interested and you’ve decided you’ve moved on, don’t do anything. Don’t waste your time.
00 Reply - Anonymous(30-35)1 y
a message isn't going to do anything at the end of the day. if you want to add him, then add him. if you don't want him on your instagram, then ignore.
00 Reply Decline. Or you wanna go over your heartbreak one more time with him?
10 Reply1.2K opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic. It is just Instagram. Either way, it is not important.
00 ReplyDon't message. Just accept his request and don't follow back.
00 Reply- Anonymous(18-24)1 y
If you dont expect to get back together i dont see why not. You dont have to follow back. A year after is not a big deal at all.
00 Reply If I were you, I wouldn't message him or accept his request.
00 Reply2.3K opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic. Don't
00 ReplyI personally just accept it and leave it down to him what he does next. (My opinion is based on you being open to getting back together)
00 Reply- 1 y
Decline it and block him. End of story
00 Reply - 1 y
Only message him if you want him back.
00 Reply - 10 mo
1st.
00 Reply 2.3K opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic. Accept it
01 Reply- Asker1 y
a part of me wonders if he just wants to increase his following lol
- Anonymous(18-24)1 y
Dont care him
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