Polls: Break Up & Divorce

If you break up for whatever reason and later on give them a 2nd (or even 3rd chance) and get back together, does it ever work out or you end up leaving them again for the same and/or different reason?

Or has there actually been successful cases of break-ups, getting back with your ex and then even marrying them? Or are break-ups meant to stay as break-ups for a reason?

***But may Try to be Indiscreet about it? xx

*******I am Back and Forth with Him In Being IN A RELATIONSHIP, Trying to BE A FRIEND, and Taking Painful Breaks... Very Confusing right now. xx

Me and my ex boyfriend of 4 years broke up 2 weeks ago and we had no contact ever since
It was a heated argument and we broke up
We lived together so we see each other everyday
Both of us never cheated on each other


Today, he sent my mother a long message saying:
- I cheated on him and lied to him
- I talk crap about him to everyone
- I fight with him everyday so I never loved him
- he doesn't want my mum to tell me about this message
- and he doesn't care about me
- he doesn't want anything to do with me
Etc

Why is he badmouthing me to my mother?
Why is he even messaging her in the first place?

• Both are awful (obviously) but my friend refuses to acknowledge what I feel is the worse scenario and I need unbiased opinions to show perspective. Thanks!

🥺 yesterday I ended up telling my boyfriend that I felt something was missing in this relationship and he’s the type of person to want to change to please you. But I was trying to tell him I don’t want him always changing for me and I felt it would be best if we would see other people who matched each other’s energy. He sounded so down and He said he’d prefer if we could talk about this in person and not on a call. So we haven’t really broken up yet. He can fill the rift because I can but he still wants us to go back to how we were. But then he made a statement about how much he loves me 🥺 and he knows sooner or later he’d have to face the reality of loosing me. I don’t know why I felt so bad when he said that. Now I feel guilty for the pain He’s having 🥺 and I was doing this because I thought that’s the best for us and trying to say it in the least hurtful way

***Name a FEW. xx

**My Fiance (Not sure I should Call him this now) Took a Break (Not even sure If IT Wasn't just a Break-up instead) For I had just Moved Nearly a Month ago to a Lovely place On My Own. I share this Place with Two other people but Not an EX (Bestie Friend) who is just a Part of my Family For Years and also a Biz partner. I now have More Freedom and Space and Feel Happier now. I can also get back into My Second book I am Writing. However, For Three years I have Been in a Long Distance Relationship with Alistyr from Gag (Not here anymore) and We became Engaged. Rings, etc. I became Part of His Family as well. We exchange Gifts, etc. I realize (Not judging neither) Many of You Frown on a LDR but it was Everything Beautiful to Us and We have/Had made it Work. I became a Bit of a problem in My Own Right with some Things and It Caused friction. And of Course, He Has/Had his own Flaws. But we still Love One another very much. Trouble Is, I am Not SURE anymore I wish to get Married and Be his Wife. Even now to Wear his Ring, Which I put Aside for Now. I don't Want to Keep going Back and Forth to Cause Him anymore pain and Anguish and Confusion. I need Advice from my Friends Here on How to Proceed now? Any Input Is Greatly Appreciated. Thank You, Friends. xx

I say I'm over the issue but I feel like deep down I'm still not over it. Hmm 😒

***Good and /Or Bad Terms. xx