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What is Your Break-UP Book about That you Would Write about?
It would be about being in infatuated relationships when I was in my teens and twenties. I liked those girls a lot and we were really good friends. But once the "honeymoon period" was over and I realized that I didn't want to marry or spend the rest of my life with them, I moved on to another pretty girl. I was still in the process of experiencing life and having fun.
I never had sex with anyone else while in a relationship. I just became more distant to signal that I was kinda over it. I didn't know how to make a clean break. I didn't want to have a long, emotional conversation because I didn't know how to explain why I was moving on. I didn't even have a great reason. I also didn't want to hurt their feelings with words. So I'd just start going steady with a new girl and getting infatuated all over again. But I never had sex with another girl while still in a sexual relationship with a girlfriend. I thought that would be cheating.
I remained friends with some of my exes because we ran in the same circles. In fact, I'm Facebook friends with my very first girlfriend who was 14 and I was 16 when we were together. She's super good people and is a happy grandma now.
I could write about one particular girlfriend who was 32 when I was 35. I would be a warning about renting a place together. I had known her from my teens and thought she was unbelievably sexy, but never tried to start anything with her because of her age and because she was kind of a ditz.
I had lost track of her. She had gotten married and had four kids. She tracked me down when she was near finalizing her divorce from her husband. I was surprised to hear from her. The timing was perfect because I hadn't had a girlfriend for almost five years due to a job that completely changed my lifestyle an persona. I had gradually gained weight because I was unhappy. But by age 35, I was back in shape and feeling good about myself.
We got together and she was still as gorgeous as can be. I was smitten. Because she lived so far away, she suggested that we rent a place together. Things went great for a few months, but it started to become apparent that she was clinically unbalanced.
One day when I came home from work, she had moved out, taking all her stuff and some of mine. At first I was hurt and angry, but I soon realized that being rid of her was a good thing. The problem was, I lost money. I also had to find a new place to live, but I wound up with a better apartment than the condo I had lived in before. So it really worked out for the best.
I could write about the girl I met when I was 36. She was 30. She turned out to be my ideal. I fell deeply in love for the first time in my life. She loved me, too. We wound up living together for over a year even though we both had our own places.
At some point, we separated. It had nothing to do with cheating or anything mean. I didn't realize until years later that it had been a communication error and I had been a clueless dipshit. But I was devastated. I've never experienced such pain. It took me a year to pull myself together and get on with life.
She found me on Facebook 20 years later. We even spoke on the phone and it was like old times. Five years later, I read that she had died from a sudden medical problem.
There is a hole in my heart that will never heal. I still love her and will never forget her. I am beyond grateful for our time together.
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How to recognize cluster-b personalities so this doesn’t happen again.
I’m giving up on this guy I like. Because clearly it seems he’s not even a friend anymore. He’s being enjoying with the other women around him a lot.
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I wouldn't be doing anybody any favors by writing about my break ups/divorce Paris. Lol
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u I would say "learn your lessons from every failed relationship and none of them will have been a waste of time."
1.1K opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic. No idea, Paris. What's yours sound like?
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If I was to write one it would be a happy ending. Someone who was maybe in a abusive relationship or maybe even if it was not abusive. A relationship that was not a happy one maybe controlling or double standard.
In the end someone would break up. They would end up with someone better... And then the other one would all the sudden be jealous and want the person back and turn into a creepy stalker. They would end up being arrested and the new couple would live happily ever after.
The person breaking up would think that the person is going to be all sad and depressed forever. But in reality it is a sigh of releif. Yeah the person is sad for a while.
This is... Something that happens in real life a lot. There is a breakup... Especially someone who ended the relationship. They hope the person will be sad and regret something or that they will come running back and beg to try again.
But what ends up happening is that they find someone whose better and it turns into jealousy
674 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic. I have one really heartbreaking one when I was dumped and one I did over the phone. One girl stopped returning my calls and when I finally went to her place I find out she moved out and nobody knew where she went. I think they kicked her out . Not a very big book
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The only thing that broke me away from my girlfriend was her passing away… 😢
That is aside from a few girls who only pretend to like me, but quickly showed they just wanted money. 😡
First my heart breaks, then other girls stab at what’s left like vultures. 😥
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I have no unresolved issues from any of that...
actually, we're best friends today (with some) or in friendly terms (with the other) -
When we’re done we’re all the way done. No contact no thinking about it no what ifs.
"The Narcissist and The User"
A book dedicated to my exes. First one was a narcissist who loves to gaslight me and second one is a user who repeatedly said that I'm the "one" then dumped me after 3 months because he said he just used me for validation and because he was lonely 🙄😒- 734 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.
Haven’t done that many break ups but I could write down a lot about divorce
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All relationships go through hell you just gotta pick the right person to go through it with.
I would have nothing to write about.
The breakup was over small petty things. If you fix the small things you can address the big things.
They told me but I wouldn’t listen.
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Never assume.
Holding the pieces of my broken heart
Mine has nearly always been, "She's awesome, but we just don't click romantically."
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The good the bad the ugly
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paris it was cool!!!
Never say goodbye
386 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic. I have nothing here @Paris13
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