Have you ever felt horrible about breaking up with someone?

[Anonymous]

🥺 yesterday I ended up telling my boyfriend that I felt something was missing in this relationship and he’s the type of person to want to change to please you. But I was trying to tell him I don’t want him always changing for me and I felt it would be best if we would see other people who matched each other’s energy. He sounded so down and He said he’d prefer if we could talk about this in person and not on a call. So we haven’t really broken up yet. He can fill the rift because I can but he still wants us to go back to how we were. But then he made a statement about how much he loves me 🥺 and he knows sooner or later he’d have to face the reality of loosing me. I don’t know why I felt so bad when he said that. Now I feel guilty for the pain He’s having 🥺 and I was doing this because I thought that’s the best for us and trying to say it in the least hurtful way

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[Anonymous]

I know heartbreaks, setbacks
Bitch, if I crap out, I'm sure I'ma get back
I been through the ups and downs, you know I get around
So to me, it's all a part of the game
If I ain't the coke man, or the dope man
I'm almost for sure man, I gotta take it
Don't need to say shit, I'm gon' take it
Robberies turned homicide, it's nothin' to play with
Make money, make-make, make money
When shit hit the fan, we'll take money, South side
Be with the best of 'em, gun shot at the rest of 'em
Checks, I'm collectin' 'em, check, boy, I'm finessin' em
Bag Supreme, boy you fuck around, put a big bag on your head
'Fore the weather break your bag your dead
Let's get to it, they don't do it like we do it
Cop it, whip it, bag it, flip it

[IAteTwoFullHams]

I think only a sociopath wouldn't feel horrible about that. You're hurting someone you care about. It's awful.

But sometimes it's what has to be done.

[Paris13]

In your Same Shoes Now. Take a Break and Try to Be Civil BUT---IT IS HARD. xx

[DiegoO]

Yeah. With the only romantic relation I ever had. There was not much we could do to go forward. Sometimes you gotta let go. Loving someone is not about "having" them. It means to take the necessary steps in the best interest of both. Breaking up is in ocassions, the only step possible for a greater good.