Polls: Break Up & Divorce

Would you ask A. I. like GPT etc. If you should break up?

Like people feel torn, between staying together or breaking up, and feel uncertain, so would you ask it, or ask an A. I. girlfriend /partner, if you should stay together? Or break up? Or how to break up?

The car, one of a few, has finally given up the ghost. Not unexpected, just unexpectedly the date. Months ago the mechanic agreed it was on its engines last kilometers, fit to drive and safe, just that it was showing its age. After 25 years, and with no rust, it had finally given up the ghost. 👻

I can't help yet feel some sadness, not for an object, yet more the memories and the nostalgia of all things in life. Much like fictional Noddy in the 1990s and his iconic car. It's important to appreciate when an object has "given up the ghost" - humbly 'briefly lament it' - and onto the next used car shopping 🚗🙃🙂🥲

When people have recently been through the break up of a romantic relationship, I frequently hear one of them say, "I just need us to talk one more time so I can get closure." Often, I'm not sure that they really know what this "closure" thing is, and it just sounds like an excuse to postpone the inevitable.

Have you ever said that you needed closure after a break up? If so, what does closure mean to you? And just how important is it. . . really?

Lindsey has dated a lot of guys, and her time to make kids is almost up. She has a small window remaining if she's lucky. For the last go around, she proposed...

No indication she wants kids, but she's dating and was doing so aggressively.

What do you think is going wrong and would you fix it and make her lifetime happy?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lindsey_Vonn

Wishing her well healing up. The broken limb will heal, but the rest of life is cast in stone soon and she'll need to resolve what is going wrong in selection of mates soon.

https://youtu.be/lwHdW5BIVo8?si=wqDvRc2droBXKrRV
Heartbreak sucks! Is love worth that pain?
Let’s imagine a perfect world in which everyone ultimately finds their soulmate. How many heartbreaks would be too many to continue going through the motions? Is true love worth nearly endless pain with no end in sight?

I know it can be the other way round in principle, but it is usually the women who does this.

I mean initiating the messaging

You're breaking up, but you don't want to do it in person. Instead, you send a text message.

Now the real question... How long should that breakup text be? What should it say?

Please vote in the poll, and offer an opinion.

Hey I just wanted to say thank you for being a great girlfriend the past year. I’ll always have great memories from our time together (whether it’s our hot tub with the bugs in Wales, neon painting in the cavern, playing Skyrim, picking out vinyls for listening parties, feeding birds or playing around in museums with your creative mind). I’ve learnt so much about myself and what I want and need in relationships especially given my lack of experience (not counting non serious 20s ones, I’d say you were my first proper adult relationship) and I’ve learnt how to take better photos. 😜

Even though it didn’t work out in the end (and I think on reflection it was the right decision), Im grateful you gave me the opportunity to get to know you and be a part of your life and purple haven & helping me find a bit more confidence :) I hope the next chapter of your life brings you much joy and happiness and ultimately, I hope you find what you’re looking for :) It’s up to you but I hope we can part on good terms and Im happy to keep in touch if you are :) but for now, I bid you farewell.