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Polls: Break Up & Divorce

Would you marry Lindsey Vonn... because she keeps bombing out of relationships?

Lindsey has dated a lot of guys, and her time to make kids is almost up. She has a small window remaining if she's lucky. For the last go around, she proposed... No indication she wants kids, but she's dating and was...
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Lindsey has dated a lot of guys, and her time to make kids is almost up. She has a small window remaining if she's lucky. For the last go around, she proposed... No indication she Show More
Yes
No
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Is it really better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all?

https://youtu.be/lwHdW5BIVo8?si=wqDvRc2droBXKrRV Heartbreak sucks! Is love worth that pain? Let’s imagine a perfect world in which everyone ultimately finds their soulmate. How many heartbreaks would be too many to...
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https://youtu.be/lwHdW5BIVo8?si=wqDvRc2droBXKrRV Heartbreak sucks! Is love worth that pain? Let’s imagine a perfect world in which everyone ultimately finds their soulmate. How many Show More
I have yet to find love, and i refuse to stop trying.
I have found love and lost it. Still i refuse to stop trying.
I have found true love and i would gladly suffer infinitely for having found it.
There is a limit to how much pain i will endure to find love. (Please explain in comments)
I have loved and lost and i refuse to put myself through that again.
I have never found love and refuse to torture myself further in its pursuit.
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Yes
Nope
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Do you think women having half of the men's assets by default in case of a divorce is fair?

I know it can be the other way round in principle, but it is usually the women who does this.
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I know it can be the other way round in principle, but it is usually the women who does this. Show More
Yes it is fair
No it is not fair and the law should change ASAP in this regard
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Yes
No
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How to date as a young divorced guy? 27, she cheated. no kids, divorce final. just curious your thoughts?

Not interested in women older than me so 23-28 is the dating range. Just worried since it’s very unlikely they’ll be divorced themselves and so don’t know if it’ll be hard.
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Not interested in women older than me so 23-28 is the dating range. Just worried since it’s very unlikely they’ll be divorced themselves and so don’t know if it’ll be hard.
I’m not in my 20’s
I don’t think it’ll be an issue
It will be tough with that group
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Does your ex keep messaging you?

I mean initiating the messaging
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Yes they do
No they don’t
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Yes 6-8 weeks no contact is best even if you agree to stay friends
No stay in touch if you both want to stay friends
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How long should a breakup text be?

You're breaking up, but you don't want to do it in person. Instead, you send a text message. Now the real question... How long should that breakup text be? What should it say? Please vote in the poll, and offer an opinion.
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You're breaking up, but you don't want to do it in person. Instead, you send a text message. Now the real question... How long should that breakup text be? What should it say? Please Show More
One LETTER
One WORD
One SENTENCE
MORE THAN One SENTENCE
Something ELSE - please tell
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Yes it is
No it’s not
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Add Opinion 10 18
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She misses your presence
She still likes you to some extent
Both of the above
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Yes they do
No they don’t
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Yes
No
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Yes let it go
no ask for it
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How would you feel if you received this message from ex 3 weeks after breakup?

Hey I just wanted to say thank you for being a great girlfriend the past year. I’ll always have great memories from our time together (whether it’s our hot tub with the bugs in Wales, neon painting in the cavern, playing...
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Hey I just wanted to say thank you for being a great girlfriend the past year. I’ll always have great memories from our time together (whether it’s our hot tub with the bugs in Wales, Show More
I’d think it’s a nice message
I’d be suspicious
Id be creeped out
I would think nothing
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I’d think it’s a nice parting message
I would find it creepy or that he has ulterior motive
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Would you ever send a positive closure message to your ex partner a week or 2 after your breakup?

A message just thanking them for great memories and for letting you be a part of heir life etc even if it didn’t work out in the end. And just a last message wishing them well.
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A message just thanking them for great memories and for letting you be a part of heir life etc even if it didn’t work out in the end. And just a last message wishing them well. Show More
Yes I would
No I wouldn’t
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yes
1-2 weeks
2 weeks to a month
1-2 months (coward, it'll be Christmas by then)
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Dumper
Dumpee
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In most breakups, are there obvious signs noticed by both or does the partner who was broken up with feel it was out of the blue?

Like are there obvious signs of tension and it’s obvious to both partners that the relationship is clearly not working out or is it less obvious? Like they’re planning future events and telling each other about how...
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Like are there obvious signs of tension and it’s obvious to both partners that the relationship is clearly not working out or is it less obvious? Like they’re planning future Show More
There are obvious tensions and the relationship is clearly not working out to both in most cases
In most cases, one partner feels blindsided and like the breakup came out of the blue
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