Polls: Break Up & Divorce

Let's say you broke up with a lover because that lover hooked up with one of your family members. Which of the following would be the LEAST painful to endure? VOTE!

for me it’s a no. onto bigger and better things quite literally

I could’ve gone into greater detail on the polls but i rather hear what you would each personally do. I’d try E first and tell them ways to improve on being a better partner and I’d ask them in what ways I could improve as well. But if things still go downhill from there, I’d do C. I’d come up with some totally different random reason to end us so I can leave them for someone else. But i’d let the other person know that I want to get to know them a bit more before just jumping in with them. I don’t want them to take it as a rebound, because i never rebound. I just go for the better option honestly 🤷‍♀️ And if things don’t work out with them, I sure as heck ain't going back to the previous option 🤣

#FeelFreeToList #FeelFreeToGTFO

My husband has agreed to a divorce. I asked for it because he was emotionally, mentally and at times physically abusive. Things have been deteriorating and I decided I should get out early before things get really bad.

Previously, he agreed that even though I asked for the divorce, we would announce it together and explain to the kids we will continue to love and care for them but just in separate places since none of this is their fault.

Today he said he wants to just pack his bags and leave and it's on me to explain it.

I have messaged with people on G@G who have told me how damaging it was when their dads just dipset instead of facing them when they were leaving.

So am I being unreasonable to ask that we do this as a family unit or is he right and that since I want the divorce I should shoulder the full burden in announcing it?

I was talking to a guy for about 6 months or so. We met online & due to covid we weren't able to see each other, we got really close really fast. Things were good but then he began to have doubts at 5 months & talked about a break for a while until we could see each other. 6 months he officially said to go on a break and if i found someone it was okay. Things were good, we would talk, he would call me beautiful & said his dad asked about us. Mind you this was about 2 weeks ago. A week ago i texted him telling him i missed him and i got no response or anything. I waited and doubled texted and then triple texted a couple days later this past Friday, the 23rd, he posted a picture of him with a girl and the caption said "hot girl summer WHO? #datenight #couplegoals #covid_19 #romantic" I saw it when i opened insta and i liked it and he blocked me on everything. Days later he messaged me and deleted the picture, he said he didn't know what he's doing with himself. He also said "The one person i posted, like I don't know, they approached me and i was like hey let's give this a try i guess. I blocked you like an immature guy then boom it doesn't work, i reflect on myself and i feel like an idiot who feels like i do everythin wrong. I probably hurt you and probably ruined that chance. I get left for somethin stupid and now i feel like i ruined everythin this is why i have commitment issues and its my own damn fault." then he does on to say he is unhappy and insecure. tried to fill the void when he isn't happy with himself. He also apologized for blocking me. The things I asked for were to never block me & to please tell me if he ever found anyone. He did the exact opposite & apologized I've thought about this, he did bring up taking a break and told me what he did like he reached out. But i don't want to be an afterthought but have feelings for him, i can't fully trust but i want to be friends.. Let me know what u think

A Dear John letter is a letter written to a man by his wife or romantic partner to inform him that their relationship is over, usually because she has found another lover.
I think you all know what "cheating" is..And me personally, I rather the letter, cuz least they honest with it, as much as it may hurt, hurts easy more to lay Up with a liar, give that intimate part of yourself to someone undeserving of that part of you...#don'tgiveituptojustanyone

Two weeks after no contact? Or is this foolish?

We got back in touch again after years of no contact
Its been a month since we started talking again
Texting back and forth

Then today he asked when Im free
And that he wants to go out for a movie & dinner

Why?

We broke up 2years ago
& we were dating for almost 4 years

Me and my ex broke up few years ago

We both were in a relationship after we broke up

Now we are both single again
So he added me back on facebook and messaged me

He told me about his bad breakup
And then asked how Im doing and what I've been upto
And asking about our families, job
Etc

Would he add me back if he still wanted to back with his recent ex?

They were together for 2 years
We were together for 3 years
So Im still his longest relationship

They both deleted pictures
And deleted each other from social media

Or is it really over between them?