I could’ve gone into greater detail on the polls but i rather hear what you would each personally do. I’d try E first and tell them ways to improve on being a better partner and I’d ask them in what ways I could improve as well. But if things still go downhill from there, I’d do C. I’d come up with some totally different random reason to end us so I can leave them for someone else. But i’d let the other person know that I want to get to know them a bit more before just jumping in with them. I don’t want them to take it as a rebound, because i never rebound. I just go for the better option honestly 🤷♀️ And if things don’t work out with them, I sure as heck ain't going back to the previous option 🤣 Jk Jk#FeelFreeToList#FeelFreeToGTFO
I’d probably cheat so I can have my cake and eat it too
I’d communicate with my partner and see if they were okay with an open relationship
I’d breakup with them for a different reason and go be with the other person
I’d tell my partner why I’m leaving them and that I found someone I connect with more
I’d stay with my partner and tell them ways they can improve on being someone I connect with more
I’d stay with my partner and just settle without communicating my frustration
I’d leave them for someone se but hope they’ll take me back if things don’t workout
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#Scenario If you were taken but found yourself more physically/emotionally attracted to someone else, which would you do?
No one can stay married now or days if u ever cheated I but u 70% of those people are saying noo with there fingers crossed lol stop lying lol and hell noo u could look like a model that don't mean nothing what's attractive is her making u laugh and she knows how u are your likes yours needs holding down a conversation because u treat her the same way no matter what u have each other back now that a woman that turns me on Soo I already did that running around drooling on other woman out my system lol decades ago lol nothing wrong with looking lol my girl be like look at her she hot I be like Hun u testing me she said fuck yeah I'm testing u I hope u did say yeah so I can break my foot off in your ass lol then I say baby I love how u be talking dirty to me lol then we both laugh 😂
That happens to me all the time. she gets attached to me for a short time as always then she runs into someone who she feels more connected to then me then she either calls me or comes over with the bad news about us then she leaves me and then she starts the relationship of the other person then she stays with him.
Its ok. Right now I'm not currently seeing anybody and I'm taking a break for awhile. This year I seen about 5 people but didn't work out
Girl 1: Wanted to see older men daddy like figures like 50 plus year old men only and she got her wish
Girl 2: wasn't interested but later she find a man.
Girl 3: only seen me only month and half then a old boyfriend from her past then came into the picture then their spark and their torch flame up! Then she decided to reconcile with him then start where they left off.
Girl 4: didn't work out and no spark but later find someone well hung.
Girl 5: we turned up incompatible. Then very recently her business partner started making moves on her.
Damn those with the daddy issues need to chill tf out 😂 You’re not alone. My year hasn't been the greatest either. One wanted me to be more sexually open and then freaked out once i became more sexually open 😂 guess i was too freaky for him. The other smoked cigs and i told him i’d never get over it. Another wanted to still hangout with his exes like wtf. Another used to do porn and expected me to be okay with that. Another was pursuing an acting career and wondered why i doubted whenever he was being genuine about something haha. And another had a sus family
That's really what happened with girl number 5: Im more sexual then she was. I'm more opened in the bedroom then she was. There's was few things she won't do in the bedroom and she wanted the sex in the bedroom only then exploring outside the bedroom.
Im not even kinky tho lol. Im freaky but not kinky. He kept askin me to be naughty and then he shyed away and was acting all goody. Like screw that lol. Dont unleash the beast my dude
most of my rejections is because of my kinkyness. I'll do almost any in bed except threesomes, foursomes, groups, cockolds or not too extreme but Girl 5 really did like me but she wouldn't accept my kinkyness or would't accept my very kinky sexual preferences.
Oh no. Most of the time I had some ladies who wants to be friends with me but after they hear about my very kinky sexual preferences they ran away like I'm wearing a new repellent " im too kinky repellent " lol
H when i fall for someone i can hardly see anyone else. Also, im very picky so my partner must be amazing so therefore it would be unlikely id be more attracted to someone else. If i was slighy more attracted to someone else id still find it ridiculus to leave my partner over that person as i cannot possibly know if that person would be amazing as he seems cause i never dated him. So i wouldn't leave a great relationship for something MAYBE a bit better. If anything id wonder what is missing in my own relationship that im more attracted to someone else.
Well id first try to make it work in my relationship, but if its alreqdy going downbill thats bigger concern than someone else im attracted to. I wouldn't stay long in relationship thst was bad n would try to fix it asap.
Im pretty certain if I ended up finding someone else attractive, it means there’s something Im missing personally. It probably isn’t even my partners fault. Just my own thoughts. If that was the case, I’d probably tell my partner more.
Let’s say I’m attracted to this dude because he takes the opportunity to listen to my day and he dresses like Vin Diesel.
Gonna go home to my man with all the new gear I bought him from the Vin Diesel collection and ask him to model them for me. Then I’ll tell him about my day. He doesn’t have to like the clothes, I just need the reassurance myself that he can at least look that good for me in the private comforts of our home.
You pretty Much have to ask yourself how much do you value your partner? If you can’t resist temptation then you pretty much answered your own question that you don’t really value your partner if you can be drawn to someone else. Most people that can’t resist temptation will end up on bed with the new person and then wait the next day to dump their partner or if they are selfish they will try to keep their partner like nothing ever happened , Sad but true , Me personally would dump my partner right away considering I already answered my own question that I didn’t love and value her if I can bang someone else , is the way I look at it
Exactly , I don’t consider it cheating if you end it with someone for someone else , it’s only cheating if you try to keep your partner while banging someone else
I’ve been in this position before actually. And I’d do the same thing I did back then.
which was stay loyal to my partner. And if my partner or relationship needed work then I’d do that.
But cheating on my partner is never a option nor would I up and leave them. I will exhaust every other option possible before leaving someone.
Im just that dedicated to my partners. And people these days to readily throw their partners away at the first sign of trouble.
Partners and relationships require work and effort to succeed the vast majority of the time. Most people aren’t blessed to have a effortless relationship where everything just falls into place. And even those still require a little work, effort and compromise.
Yea cheating is pointless when you can just cut the rope. And cutting the rope is rude if you haven't at least tried to fix it. But i know too many who will “fake” fixing it. They revert back to their old ways within the next month and those should happily get dumped
They should have a fair chance to improve and I'd do what I could to help them get to where I need them. That's what I think relationships are best for, building eachother up. But not just anyone can. I wouldn't have a strike system but watch their efforts and see if it's possible we can be what we need for eachother. Also then if that goes decently and still doesn't work out ideally you can both more easily agree on the break up. Though you may also lose the person you felt connected better in the mean time. So there is a bit of quick decision making sometimes and I think it's just always best to be on top of your impressiveness. Keep interest alive and well as much as you can. Keep her eyes and body focussed on you and be sure she wants it there.
This is interesting. I recently confessed my love to one of my close friends while she's in a relationship. She didn't reciprocate feelings, but she told me that she was really glad that I expressed my feelings to her, but we wouldn't be able to hangout one-on-one while she's in her relationship. I'm still not sure how to take it. She wants to remain friends but have some distance, but she expressed multiple times how much she appreciated me telling her that I loved her. It's so hard for me to read, because I want to believe that she could still want to pursue something with me. Especially because she refrained from telling me that she was happy with her boyfriend when I asked. I just find this interesting to read how some people think about this from the otherside. I've never been in the situation, but I possibly have put someone in the position. I definitely can see now how difficult it could be to decide what to do.
I love that she said you can't hang alone while she's taken. However it does make her look sus for even holding on to that friendship. I could no longer do one sided crush type friendships outside of those HS days. Maybe she does like you too I don't know
Just to clear up few things! I love my wife even though she is no in shape and we both know and accept it, i am not leaving her for someone else. Now! I am tall and workout so many girls and women with great bodies hit on me all the time, not gonna lie and the Mrs knows, there some ladies out there that has killer bodies and it's difficult to deny it. BUTT! I am not leaving my wife just because another woman who has a better looking ass and flirted with me 🤷♂️. E , kind of ish
In the first place, never look at anyone as an OPTION, but as a POTENTIAL. And secondly, never ask anybody to change to suit your expectations. They are who they are, and either they fit your bill or they don't. It isn't fair to ask anybody to alter themself to suit another person's "requirements". Take them and accept them for who and how they are, or keep moving.
Being married I'd try to talk it out to find ways to improve things, but I'd never consider leaving and divorce... just not in my nature barring violence against me or cheating... not much would get me to leave.
Now if I wasn't married, those cases it is easier to leave... still would talk about it first and see if we would improve things.
If I'm only physically attracted to someone more than my partner I would just ignore those feelings and stay with my S. O. Physical attraction only lasts for so long, emotional attachment is far greater. But if the person checked both boxes and I were unhappy I would have to break up with my current partner. Better to do it sooner rather than later right?
I didn't mean getting to know someone I was assuming your question meant getting very emotionally close to someone to the point of attraction. That's what I was referring to my bad.
None of the options The fact that I went and found someone else attractive when I'm in a relationship would be shameful for me. So I'd break up with my partner and apologise to them. But I wouldn't be with the other person either. As a punishment I would deny myself a chance with either of them.
You dont have to actively seek another connection. When you partner distances themselves, you meet new people all the time. I never said you should flirt with those new people. But getting to know them happens a lot
True but if my partner distances themselves, then I'd work to try and get us closer or talk to them about it. If they put in no effort, I'd break up but would wait a while before meeting anyone else, out of respect.
Not sure any of the choices match how things would be for me. I don't think I would get into a relationship that I didn't think was worth eliminating all other options for in the first place. And if I was in a relationship that wasn't working out I doubt I would jump right into another.
I have a more traditional view on marriage and relationships. I don't engage in anything that doesn't have long term potential. If I was married to the person then leaving would be out of the question but if it's just a relationship I don't know... I don't even know if it's possible for me to be that kind of situation because it takes a lot of time for me to be attracted to someone.. it would have to be with someone I've known already for a long time.. man, I don't know, this one is hard.
well I wasn't really attracted to anyone else, its just something that my husband and I talked about, and talked about and talked about, then we decided that it could be fun, and it was and still is,
Option D although if things were going well in my relationship I wouldn't be in that situation. I'd also separate before acting on it as cheating is horrible break up can be painful enough without that.
I have been in this situation couple years ago I was in a relationship when I met this guy we instantly clicked and our chemistry was stronger than that of my boyfriend. It was hard I spend most of my time with him and we became bestfriends. Long story short we are together now.
This is a hard one. Because I am the type tjat would be like, we are not connecting lately. And break up. I don't believe in connecting with someone. When you already have someone. Cheating is cheating. Lol
Oooo i like that statement. We’re not connecting lately, goodbye 😂 Aww man i’ma start using that. But to me, its not cheating if you’re getting to know someone. Now it can become cheating if y'all start flirting while getting to know eachother.
It depends how long I knew that other person. If it’s just a fleeting crush then I wouldn’t break up with the person I’m already with. It also depends on how that person is attracted to me.
I wouldn't act on anything unless i’m actively breaking up. But i think lots of people are in a battle wit their consciousness over the right thing to do
Its a hypothetical scenario where everyone speaks for themselves. If your partner isn't doing what they should as a partner, then you have the right to move on if they dont try to fix whats being asked of them to fix
If that's the case then yeah the person should leave but the grass isn't always greener on the other side. Men are fake and will pretend to be all you want them to be while trying to get you. Once they get you their true colors come out
That is so true. Thats why i give those 3 month limits. I've only met ONE guy who was able to fake it up until the 6th monh mark. Everyone else showed their true colors within 2 weeks to 3 months. I say good riddance cause i hate wasting time
Yeah they're fake as hell😂, messy and drama. They always wanna make it seem like us women are drama and messy but in reality they are usually the ones lying to their main chick and their side chicks. Then when they get caught wanna blame us say we messy and like drama. That's why I'm single right now, focusing on me, my money cause they are full of shit. Yep 2 weeks to 3months their colors show.
Me too. Heck I'd like to have a family one day but the way these guys are these fay days I doubt that'll happen so I better freeze my eggs now. I heard it's painful tho. Have u ever seen being Mary jane?
I never finished the first season but I've been saying forever that im fine doing a donor it invitro. I just wouldn't freeze them. I’d go ahead and get a donor but it has to be someone i dont know cause i dont want to lie to the kid when they ask who their dad is 😂
So with vitro do you give birth or someone else does it for you? I don't know if I want to do the work of carrying a child in my belly for 9 months. Seems like a lot of work 🤣✌
Donor and invitro are both your own baby in your own body. But with a sperm donor, you dont choose the daddy. With invitro, you choose whose sperm you want. Usually its when two partners struggle to conceive so his sperm and her eggs are mixed together outside the body in then inserted into her or something like that. A surrogate is when someone else carries your baby
Well i guess thats nice of you 😂 but what if she says “so when did y'all meet? How long have y'all talked?” See this is why i’d find a diff reason to breakup. Im not tryna be interrogated 😂
Well depends on the person me I couldnt be with someone I don't care for I would have to break it off if I dint feel the same way any more
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I'd stay but only until I knew the other side felt the same and for some reason it just wasn't working for us. But I'd stay if it was still working and I could just be friends with the other person.
I think it's also important to mention that some people you bond really well with won't be pleasant to live with or be in a relationship with, so I might not pursue them at all.
plus since I hadn't done anything sexual with the new person, there wouldn't be that emotional attachment that sex triggers, so even if they were identical twins, I'd love my girlfriend more just from that.
I have high expectations for who they are, and low expectations for what they do.
She would need to withhold affection, or cheat, or something else involving unfaithfulness or distancing physically or socially, and if it wasn't fixable I'd leave the relationship long before her "twin" was found, So I'd be alone at that point.
I only like clingy girls though so I don't see that happening.
I'm clingy as well so I feel like I would be spending 99% of my time with a girlfriend and honestly would likely not interact with other people much, so thats another reason I doubt that scenereo can happen. lol
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