Polls: Break Up & Divorce

I'm 19, I met this dude. We been talking for a few months. Until he told me that he had a kid which kind of shocked me because on his social media I don't be seeing it he had kids and when I go over his house he didn't had any baby stuff. He was saying that he was Trying to find the right time to tell me. I was texting my friend her about the situation. I was thinking about breaking up with him. I don't have a problem with babies I love babies. But I can't date someone who has kids. Especially for an early age. I'm trying to live my life and have fun before setting down. Having a baby gets in the way. You have to stop at what you are doing and care for your child. Anyway I told my friend about it and she said that I was being selfish. So, I just wanted to ask is it selfish or wrong to break up with someone who has a kid?

I don't know if I can find love in here but I need someone to love me and care for me. My boyfriend broke up with me last week and it's been really hard without him cause I love him so much. I am in dire need of more friends, someone to talk to and share my thoughts with.. Is it okay that I can't love someone else even tho he has moved on? I don't know why it's hard for me to forget him?💔😩

My ex and I have a son together, he's both our first born. My ex and I had a tumultuous relationship and sadly I stayed after a lot of disrespect/abuse and would reach out to him and told him I missed him and wanted to be a family only for him to reject me and further disrespect me. Since then I've moved on and have self love and respect for myself. We do not talk at all. His said things didn't end bad with his other ex and they continued to talk on the phone while he was in a relationship with me.

Anyway here are the lyrics from a song he posted to his Facebook, do you think they're about me or his ex?

A love letter came through the mail, it said, "I miss you"
I ripped it up and flushed with the tissue, try to forget you
I ain't got nothing against you, we human, we all got issues
But I'm tired of being tired of being tired
That part of me done died
I know I wasn't there for you, at least I said I'm sorry
You know what it was, I told you that I was heartless
I'm emotionally scarred, that ain't even your fault
But don't listen to them haters tryna fill your ears with salt

So long story short I dated my ex for a year but were really good friends for about 2 years before this. towards the end we were longish distance because of college (about an hour and a half) and he ended up cheating on me (kissing another girl at a party) and calling it off. I was really sad but it’s been about 9 months and he apologized for his actions and told me it was the biggest mistake he has made. The problem is I still think I’m in love with him, and based on what he said I have reasons to believe that he might feel the same. Do I admit to him that I still have pretty strong feelings for him?

If you do, why are they your favorite?