If we agreed to be friends, is it weird to call my ex months after he dumped me to talk and catch up?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[CurlyGirl42]

No. I would probably try texting instead in case he changed his mind about being friends.
I think it is awesome when people who have been couples end up being great friends instead. To me a partner is also a very good close friend and I think it is a shame to lose all that just because you are not fit to be a couple anymore.
However, it cannot work out for everyone, and one should accept if an ex is not interested in catching up. But it is definitely ok to make the contact to see if one can become friends :)

[Paris13]

Normal behavior. However, You Mentioned "Months after" So this is friendship? Why Hasn't He reached out? If you are still Hurting, Don't Pick up the Phone. xx

[Paris13]

Thanks to Gag. xx

[Asker]

No, we've actually been in touch since the breakup and text here and there but always brief. We haven't spoken in a while, though, so I just wanted to know if a phone call would be weird.

[Zealashton]

I don't know who did what, but honestly. rebounding ain't good at all its very unhealthy, but if its beuce you both where imature, and childish, and can actuall talk like adults, instead of being children, then mabey you can , but i highly dout it, but you never know.

[MountAverage]

I don't understand your question. You start off by saying you agreed to be friends, and then go on asking if it's weird if you're... actually acting like friends?

[MountAverage]

Sorry, I accidentally deleted your reply. Can you resend it?

[Aethereal]

In my opinion, it's only okay if you're not seeing someone else at the moment. Otherwise, I'd say it's best to focus on your current partner.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I suppose it's okay as long as neither of you are in a committed relationship when you call him up.

[EssenceOfLight]

Definitely weird.
Being friends with your ex is just courtesy. In reality people try to gain biggest possible distance.

[worldscolide]

sounds like you're not fully over him.. yeah thats not good.

[Wise4myage]

Its ok in this instance because you both agreed to it, but I thin its a waste of time to remain friends with an ex unless a child was involved.

[Dave31989]

You'll be doing yourself a disservice by remaining friends with an ex

DONT DO IT

[mrArcher]

Don't be friends with your ex. It trivializes your past experience.

[Price511]

I'd say otherwise. Being able to accept the fact that people couldn't work together romantically yet still get along as friends is a good thing. If I may ask, what makes it trivial if people were to stay friends afterwards?

[Zen10]

What are your real intentions and how would you feel if he left you on read?

[Asker]

I mean we've kept in touch since and text occasionally. Our last convo just ended weird cause I left him on read and then he stopped watching my stories on Instagram which he always viewed quickly. So I just want to make sure he's doing well. I know he's dealing with a lot and just want to catch up noting more.

[Anonymous]

he is going to think that you want sex

[Iron_Man]

Yes it is

[jimmy2]

I would just move on

[ronaldsnugs]

Eh..

[Anonymous]

No , not at all.